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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by RedeemedIowan, Feb 5, 2018.

  1. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    No I commend your effort. Regular hard mode after 53 days is hard enough for me. I’m in a flatline right now so it’s a little more manageable.
     
  2. Foxislander

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    In what way? I have a strong sex drive need to curb it right keep it at bay
     
  3. Foxislander

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    I need to flatline waiting for that is if kind of a decent break? Are you Married? My wife is right next to me in bed so we needed hard rules for this to work right?
     
  4. Foxislander

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    I'm exactly a week behind you does when does Flatline happen is a different for everyone or how long does it last
     
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  6. MarinoBigFan1984

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    A flatline means you feel nothing. You are not horny and generally have limited physical response sexually. No morning wood, no random boners, etc. Your sex drive goes way down.
     
  7. MarinoBigFan1984

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    How long is lasts depends on the person, the severity of the addiction, the age of the person, the type of masturbation, etc.
     
  8. MarinoBigFan1984

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    A flatline kind of gives you a rest. Makes the reboot a little easier.
     
  9. Foxislander

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    Started chaste tree today, it takes urges way down I am 56, we fucked 3-5 times a week, everything I did evolved around wanting to do it, when she did both want it, she knew I used porn. I objectified her in a bad way. She is beautiful and has a really good head on her shoulders, we also went through significant trauma of our teenager and his drug abuse which was a 14 month living hell. We have since had to let him go and have embraced our christian church family which has helped tremendously.
    We are rebooting our 33 year marriage. It's evolving into better things.
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  10. Foxislander

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    , today is day 47 out of 60 90-120 day challenges I think I'm going to put my dick in a box and have it mailed to my 120th day that's mentally where I'm at I think this is Flatline maybe I don't know but still have 3 or 4 hard-ons last night I've got myself on a no touch thing at night time still having a hard time with that weight still coming off I've lost 18 pounds already there are benefits I just got to make sure that they keep outweighing everything else well considering your penis only weighs less than a pound and I weigh 205 I guessed it that's there you go
     
  11. RedeemedIowan

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    I’m on day 22 and feelinf reinvigorated in the Lord!
     
  12. RedeemedIowan

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    Apparently miscounted yesterday. On day 22 today. I think the antithesis to discipline from addiction is pride. When I get prideful i start to think I’ve conquered this challenge. I haven’t. I need God to intervene! That’s my only chance. That’s why i get on my knees every night and pray for God’s help.

    I’ve also texted my fiancé ahead of her visit tomorrow to remind her I’m on day 22 and need her help! Afterall, hard-mode with 2 takes some serious coordination!
     
  13. Foxislander

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    I know exactly what you mean tomorrow's day 48 good luck hanging in there join me we can make it happen I'm going all the way to a hundred twenty
     
  14. Foxislander

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    They 48 out of 60 towards 90 towards 120 yesterday was a pretty good day hopefully today is better
     
  15. RedeemedIowan

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    I left him a vm on Friday, I’m not in a rush
     
  16. RedeemedIowan

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    Day 23 down praise God! I have sincerely asked God to take away urges today and even with my fiancé I wasn’t really lustful. I’m asking God to do the same for me tomorrow. I realize that I’ve become too accepting of lust. I tend to spend time thinking about my fiancé. Needs to stop. She called me out on it today actually.
     
  17. Foxislander

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    Say 49 out of 60 90 and 120 kind of starting to go a little mad here every now and then but it's getting a little easier but it's not as easy as I was hoping it was going to be
     
  18. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Starting to get harder here as well. Thank the lord no blue balls.
     
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  19. Foxislander

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    Yeah man I'm really thankful for that too I've heard about her about those I think I probably have at least one wet dreams two times a week and I think that's that's probably preventing me from getting those
     
  20. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I haven’t had a wet dream and I’ve been flatlined since day 1 of the reboot. I’ve gotten some morning wood but it’s random and semi soft. I’m starting to feel horny again but since I can’t really perform yet it’s useless.
     
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