is this common?

It's interesting.
It is.
Junk shrinking.
It's good.
You would not believe the power bill savings tho!

 

Thanks, @Kenzi! I wasn't sure how it worked, only saw in a YouTube video it is a healthy way to produce dopamine. I'll try to find that video and re-post it here. I posted it in the Rebooting section awhile back.

 

Here is the video where I heard cold showers mentioned as a way to produce dopamine naturally: I don't remember at what point exactly he mentioned it.

 

Wow, I cannot imagine coping with this situation. Pleasing my wife would bring me into close proximity to such incredible sexiness I would not be able to turn off and walk away from that, it’d be sex or masturbation for me. Either your husband has far better will power than me or you are going to have to sign up for 90 days without relying on him for sexual pleasure (i.e. either go without for 90 days yourself too or see to your own pleasure).

 

Yeah but that makes this thread LONG
& the Chaser is a Important subject new people Might want to know and see and be able to search separately.
It could be helpful to lots of PAs and SOs.
You should create a separate thread for this question.

 

I don't know if anyone has a decent Chaser thread in awhile...
Let alone one involving P-Subs.
In pretty sure it's a entirely new and different topic @SpouseofPA for NoFap

 

It sounds tough, I get that, but my bf has been able to do it. Have you ever tried it? Have you read about how Karezza affects how couples feel about each other? It can bring back the just-started-dating feeling. It might sound unbelievable, and I was surprised by that extra benefit when we tried it.

 

Karezza is overly slow.
But it's the most basic form of tantra.
And tantric sex is considered a art if you can master it.
Also, there is a reason for this.
Me and Rock Star have done tantra for a few hours.
It makes him O multiple times.
... (when we decide to finish)

 

Do you have any tantra resources? I'm reading on karezza now. Would like to read both.

 

I've probably done both for years?
I used to have resources...
Less since we tried to get rid of...
Sex stuff, for obvious reasons.
I had actual books at one point.
I can tell you about the differences, if you want.

 

We both prefer tantra
Karezza is nice foreplay

 

No, tantra has... And that feels good.
The point of both is to not O.
HOWEVER
when you go to regular sex after, like the next time, my SO is usually very stimulated from before.
It feels nice... Very connected and intimate