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I feel gay

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Christopher123, Feb 14, 2017.

  1. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    Well I heard about some guys asking their gfs to go there, apparently the prostrate is like the male g-spot, but personally I'd say you're on shaky ground if you're getting off to that on a regular basis - as you can only really associate that with penetration - that naturally doesn't happen in a male-female relationship.

    I thought you meant you enjoy watching guys give anal to girls which, I'd imagine a lot of porn is now the mainstream staple. I've watched that a bajillion times as I'm sure many other guys have.
     
  2. IggyIshness

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    I havent watched porn in over 10 months, either.
     
  3. Themadfapper

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    I mean it's not healthy to stick something up your ass. It's bad for your physical health, period. The same people who told you jerking off was fine told you anal was fine as well.

    As for sex up the ass that is how Aids is spread, and if you catch [ receptive anal sex] you are the highest risk group out there for HIV and really the only group [ also junkies who share needles] at risk for Aids.

    https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/transmission.html

    Aesop was a wise man from Ancient Greece. I post his fable because I think it's apt but also because this society is lying about homosexuality. One of their lies is that Ancient Greek culture was homosexual. One story from a man from that time isn't conclusive proof of course, but there is tons of proof.

    People will post writings from that time claiming proof of homosexuality, but if you look at the ancient Greek language you will see people are deliberately mistranslating the language to deceive people. I'm not saying the people posting these things are, but they have fallen for the lies and spread them.

    https://homosexualityinancientgreec...-against-homosexual-and-pederastic-relations/

    Has some information if you're interested in Ancient Greece? If your not interested in Ancient Greece that is fine of course what is important is to realise there is a campaign to push harmful behavior on people.
     
  4. OK well just because you don't identify as something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. What you are describing doesn't contradict the reality of homosexuality. It's up for the OP to decide whether an occasional homosexual thought DEFINES him as gay. Only he can decide that. I identify as straight because I have sexual and romantic feelings toward guys. I could be considered bi-sexual because I am sexually attracted to hypersexualized women. Again, it has to do with SEXUAL attraction. I consider myself bi-curious because I'm curious about sex with another woman and can see myself developing romantic feelings for one but it's not something I plan on seeking out. The confusion over the label bi-sexual is that people think it means you have to like both sexes EQUALLY but nope, that is not the definition.
    This is why some people like the Kinsey scale. It doesn't define straight and gay so strictly. I'm not straight as an arrow but I'm definitely straight :D:p
     
  5. Fixed it. Straight people can get aids/HIV. Vaginal penetration can lead to aids/HIV. Oral sex can lead to HIV.
    STOP SPREADING MISINFORMATION. THIS WAS PROVEN DECADES YEARS AGO. AND IT'S IN THE LINK YOU PROVIDED. READ IT.
     
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  6. Themadfapper

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    I believe that is called a "strawman argument". I never said anything about straight people.

    While it's considered very unlikely for a man to contract Aids through vaginal intercourse. It is possible and I would not want to mislead someone into thinking that is entirely safe. As well I'm no expert on the subject, but anyone who has lived amongst a gay community could see even if blind that HIV rates are through the roof amongst gay men.




    92% from 2% of the population. The others are probably junkies?

    https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/msm/


    You get it from receptive anal. It has to get into your bloodstream. Semen has the virus in it when it gets shot into the anus it can go into the colon which has a very thin cellular wall and the virus gets right in.

    According to the site you want me to read anal sex is more dangerous than sharing needles.

    Over half of all gay black men in the USA are projected to contract HIV. The rate for people contracting the virus for all men is 44x higher for gay men. IT IS PREDOMINANTLY A GAY DISEASE! It's a stereotype that was and is true the ignorant people are those that deny it, and they endanger the lives of the poor folks who believe them.

    https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/factsheets/cdc-msm-508.pdf

    https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/2016/croi-press-release-risk.html

    ^ half of all gay black men.

    Nothing to do with bigotry it's plain simple pragmatism stop thinking with emotions and what you want to be.

    Homosexuality reduces lifespan on average by 25 years according to study shown on gay website

    http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2007/04/04/american-scientist-gays-die-younger-than-smokers/

    Lesbians I can't see why they would die younger, but gay sex is brutally unhealthy for men.
     
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  7. Besides unwisely crossing out the junkies part because it's true they are high risk, I have done nothing of the sort. Any kind of sex is risky if unprotected...the only way to 100% protect yourself is to not have sex/perform sexual activities. But you aren't suggesting that. There is no such thing as a "gay disease" your phrasing is way off here. Again, straight people can get it too. Aids is a disease predominantly in the gay community. Do you see language difference here? Diseases don't go around looking for gay people. Equal opportunist.
    If you don't see how your framing of words is problematic, then you need to do a little soul searching.
     
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  8. tweeby

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    Me in this thread
     
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  9. Just stop fucking masturbating and watching porn. You know you liked girls from an early age so that is that. Why else would you be questioning it if it wasn't for porn? Don't go into exposure therapy because it won't work for you if it's porn induced HOCD. Get off this forum and only post when you have a success story.
     
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  10. Deadlihood

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    lmao
     
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  11. Deadlihood

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    I, of course, adamantly disagree with this request.
     
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  12. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Just stop fucking masturbating and watching porn

    Is that your suggestion for the NoFap tag line!?
     
  13. tweeby

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    Correct. When approaching the subject on the context of the same sex. From example, I might be in love with my girlfriend but lust after a younger, hotter girl.

    The quote is incorrect when using the context of being in love with a girl but lusting after a man. (different sexes)

    You see this is how most homosexuals in denial explain away their desires. They try to compartmentalise their innate sexual desires and emotional desires. Often you will hear, 'I'm in love with my wife/girlfriend but lust after guys.'

    Therefore they can't be gay right? Wrong, the likelihood is they only believe that because it offers them respite. They've closed off the idea of being 'in love' with men because they realise that's the end of the game for them, they have to accept their true sexuality. But give them time. :)
     
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  14. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    LOL probably the best advice to come outta this thread.
     
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  15. Themadfapper

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    You are being over sensitive and your phrasing is even worse than mine as it has an unclear meaning. Also if your going to be pedantic HIV is a virus not a disease


    http://www.hivplusmag.com/opinion/guest-voices/2014/02/19/listen-hiv-still-gay-disease

    See the title they call it a " Gay disease" Why would they do this? Because it makes it CLEAR that gay men are very susceptible to the disease!

    Not a hate site. It's a site for gay people and people with HIV.


    http://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/homosexual-leader-calls-aids-gay-disease

    homosexual leader calls it a "gay disease"

    http://dailycaller.com/2017/02/14/aids-is-a-gay-disease/


    Here is what I think is a right-wing site. "gay disease" again.


    Do you think your framing of words is problematic? Its making it seem that Aids is just as common for straights guys as it is for gay and it doesn't make it clear that Oral and Vaginal are nowhere near as dangerous as receptive anal.


    http://sfaf.org/hiv-info/basics/can-i-get-hiv-from-oral.html?referrer=https://www.google.ca/

    According to that site you can't get HIV from getting oral? I wouldn't risk it.

    https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/oralsex.html


    ^ From that site, I need to read...


    If I made out like you can't get HIV from vaginal that was a gross error on my part sorry for saying that or giving that impression.

    But again receptive Anal is hands down the most dangerous. Stay away from it.
     
  16. You clearly don't understand what porn can do. I had homosexual desires because of porn but couldn't act on them in real life. I had accepted for myself that I could be gay but I just couldn't do it I felt disgusted. This is very hard to explain but there is something about porn, in my case it was mostly straight porn, that tries to convince you that you could be homosexual and this especially involves the way girls expose themselves. It is very hard to explain but it involves some sort of paradoxical reaction, a sort of jealousy, which makes you want what the girls in porn movies do. It's all about novelty and taking things to new highs and extremes.
    Of course if you're truly gay you'll probably act upon the fantasies in real life as well, and you'll probably watch gay porn for starters.

    Of course you'll start doubting your sexuality and think you're in denial but I dated several men and I just couldn't do it I felt disgusted. HOCD is a very real thing, denial is totally out of the question if you can't love a man.

    @IGY sorry if I've offended you
     
  17. IGY

    IGY Guest

    You have got a thing about homosexuality and gay sex. It has been a recurrent theme since you got here. :( I have no idea why but @Themadfapper "doth protest too much, methinks"! :rolleyes:
     
  18. Themadfapper

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    You talk like this is a bad thing? You a homophobe?
     
  19. IGY

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    No, I am not a homophobe. :mad: Is that an accusation you mad fucking fapper?
     
  20. Yeah that's the whole idea of NoFap. Don't masturbate haha. Tweeby is a good person to speak to on this subject matter. As far as I know he is gay and He's got a pretty cool book on HOCD and its massively helpful.
     

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