Had to quit job due to PAWS

Now you may say that i'm a loser or i lost my famous nofap streak but guys what i want to say it's: this is a serious addiction, paws are real like every other drug and after all this time i've been fighting it i relapsed this year (as it happens with people detoxifing from drugs). I want just to say these things to help others, be aware guys. Definetely the world must know the truth about porn

 

yes man but you know what? I'm happy i relapsed, i lost every hope i would ever get better (i was even questioning i was feeling shitty because of porn withdrawals ) and when i relapsed i realised i was still addicted and i should just continue fighting. That being said guys, take my story and do not make the same errors

 

exactly man , this 90 days thing it's aahahahah a total bullshit. What do u do when u hit 90 days? Fap to celebrate? ahahah
btw you're right i think most of the people never fully recover

 

yes everyone can heal! 100 x 100 sure! Only thing it's time but everyone can!!!

 

Well on the positive side we have seen barely any 3 year reports. Once those start coming in we will get a much better idea of whether people make permanent recoverys or not.

 

Lmao, that was the most presumptuous post I've seen so far.

Good job, mate. That must have taken some effort.

 

man as i said: i started nofap 3 years ago, the first year it was more a try, fail repeat, after one year of these "try fail repeat" (exactly 19 months ago) i took it more seriously and didn't relapsed at all for 12 months more or less... did you understand?
Also i wouldn't get a prize for having a perfect 19 months nofap streak, i've been feeling bad for 19 months and in the last few months i relapsed, but withdrawals never stopped, that's the only thing it matters and the message of help i want to share.
anyway numbers are important only to give people hope and a general idea but don't focus too much on it, main thing it's to heal!
have u ever seen an alcohol addict saying "it's been 3 years and 4 months i've not been drinking"? No, if he does if will inevitably fail because the focus is still on drinking, whether you heal or not! That's it

 

@whysolong

Okay, this is something you'll need to think about: how are you going to keep busy?

Maybe it's a good time to work on a novel (if you're into writing)

It might be a good time to become grounded in God if you're not already.

Seriously, prayer is powerful.

You're going to feel a lot of emotions in your situation. You need to become aware of and okay with your emotions. How do you do that? You write them down (or express them through story telling or any artwork) and then you give them to God. What does that mean? It means stepping out on faith that your emotions, no matter how much they hurt, have no control over your spirit.

 

Dunno what country you live in but in the UK wages are pathletic and the cost of living keeps going up.

My friends a legal advisor and even he struggles financially, the majority of us in the UK have no hope in hell of buying a house.

We are becoming like a eastern European quality of life.

 

Bro, are you praying right?

It sounds like you are praying things that you think God would want to hear, instead of what's actually on your heart.

For example, I've told God that I'm extremely upset that porn is a bad thing because it FEELS SO GOOD. Like, what the hell, God, why does this pleasure have to be so bad for me!?

Dont try tomake your prayers sound good. Just show God where your heart is. HE KNOWS YOUR HEART ANYWAY.

 

Perfect