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Thank you for your point of view. You bring a perspective that although is different from mine, is no less interesting and valuable.

 

I wonder as well. I view sex...self sucking, masturbation, intercourse as all good and natural and healthy things. Porn is the enemy. I value your perspective and opinion, but I'm debating as to whether masturbation is itself addictive or if allowing it to become a focus causes the addiction. Porn obviously is bad and addictive. Also, isn't oxygen addictive? Can't quit that one! Just a little light-hearted joke there.
But yeah, my goal is to be able to eventually enjoy all parts of my former sex life but just in moderation and without porn.

 

What is immoral sex?
Obviously sex against someone's will. Sex with a minor. Etc.

 

I think self sucking is a natural and healthy expression of human sexuality. It is also extremely pleasurable. I think it is funny that several posters 'aren't proud' of their ability. I am proud I can do it. I went through a phase when I was self sucking everyday. As long as you are not hurting yourself. As it is more extreme/intense form of masturbation - you sometimes are more apt to exert yourself, that could lead to injury. As for porn - I view it as an amplifier. If you want to control the frequency of your masturbation, I noticed it drops off exponentially when I am not searching porn on the internet.

 

thank you man

 

after my reboot of course...haha

 

Thanks professor for your remarks. I was beginning to feel that everyone was coming down on me. The 'aren't proud' guys seem to be from Europe ... I thought Europeans were more progressive??? Liberated???

 

I'm not doing a 365 day reboot.

 

Oh great...haha. My thoughts exactly.

 

I'm most likely doing a minimum of a 90 day reboot and possibly longer if the reboot needs it. Please keep in mind that I am just getting started with this and am not knowledgeable enough yet to say one way or the other what I will or wont do. But the goal is the typical reboot which is 90 days. My goals are to become un-addicted to pornography and diminish or wipe out my PIED.

 

Thank you very much.

 

This is a great way to approach to phasing out porn if you are new to the community. The added bonus of lots of small rewards, that keep you motivated.

 

Thank you !