Looking to start a group for husbands trying to be worthy of your wife's trust again

I would be interested. Anything that will help me improve things with my SO can only be good. Great idea and I look forward to contributing.

 

Reboot nation has lots of rules.

However, if you have enough guys they give you a support group chat here on NoFap

 

You just have to ask for the sign up, officially

 

I am actually ok with staying on this thread. The title roughly captures what we're trying to do and it's a visible place for new husbands on nofap to find. I recommend not just posting how we feel or what we say to our spouses but also what we're doing to make our relationships and home life better.

 

I'm onboard with this. Whatever form it takes.

 

Hopefully I won't be online this weekend, so I'll post my weekend plans with my family now (which likely will change). Hopefully will go on a family walk this afternoon, a game tonight, then taking the kids outside tomorrow to work in the garden while my wife has some time to work alone in the house (she has a home business). Movie at home Saturday night, mass sunday morning, and then reading or continuing projects outside on Sunday. Monday night we plan to listen to a talk on sexuality at our church and maybe dinner afterwards (so no date this weekend). Have a great weekend everyone!

 

Great thread! I really enjoyed the read and I've ordered one of the books

 

"You are my quest."

 

Awesome. Thank you. Tonight I've been struggling a lot with the ways I hurt my SO in the past. I'm having a really rough time. So I'm looking forward to this group. Thanks again for putting this together.

 

That's great news! Thanks for all your hard work @TryingHard2Change

 

Very cool, I was actually going to suggest a group on nofap forum.

But please... Keep the group info on the information tab and not a pinned post on the status update tab!!! I hate when groups do this: you have to scroll forever to find the latest post!

But great idea. It's hard enough to find married couples here and sometimes even harder to find married PAs

 

I think this would be great idea. I don’t want my hubby to feel like he can’t open up completely because we are both on here. SO’s have our own private group and I think it could help my hubby to be in one of his own. We can come together in the public forums.

 

Thanks for sharing. I definitely am interested in a group like this. My wife and I just separated with the goal of staying apart for at least a month while I try to work on getting control of this (or at least make strides in that direction). My addiction came out 6 months ago and its been a roller coaster of emotion, efforts to stop, relapses, fighting, making up, fighting again, etc. I don't want my marriage to end and I'm desperately trying to make this reboot stick.

 

Get a ton of accountability partners and groups.

The further I get into recovery, the happier my wife gets. She has been in a very good mood lately even when she's stressed. I have been calm and focused, putting more of my attention on her (and not her body parts). I'm also spending more time with the kids and getting things done around the house on a regular schedule. All of this helps her sanity and allows her to not worry.

Put the first things first!

 

I commend you for making a group like this, i suggest you make it private that way if the wives are on here as well we wont be able to react to possible complaints of our husbands.
i really think they need ( or my husband needs a place where he can say freely he don't know how to handle my emotional changes etc. how he doesn't understand whatever.) just a suggestion

 

Thats great news!
i believe @ILoathePwife started a group maybe she can help you create it and explain how to make it private.

My husband may finally have a a place he can freely "talk about me" to seek help.