The Women in Porn Videos are Too Attractive

Thinking other women is hot is part of it but the way I took it was that our brains are still primitive in the sense that it wants to mate with women but it isn't smart enough to know that it's a screen separating us from the pornstars.

Married men addicted to porn is because of the law of diminishing returns. I think Chris Rock said it best: "You show me a hot woman and i'll show you a man that's tired of F-ing her." Men want that new mate to further the bloodline, but have to work against the stigma of men being the ones who cheat, even though I'd argue it's goes both ways. So instead of doing that they turn to porn which isn't technically cheating (Depending on who you ask), but ironically it only wedges the gap between them and their wives further.

During my reboot so far, I've noticed that I've found average women more attractive than before. Do I find porn stars more physically attractive? Absolutely, but you can argue that way about celebrities as well. It's by design that they look attractive, they have make-up, bodies they work hard on, they have a f-me look as if they're looking at you, but it's a lie. let me repeat that. It's a fucking lie. They will never love you like a real woman in your life will. There's an emotional attraction that porn will never fill that I know beyond a doubt men want. Men want love, and if you're fortunate enough to have a relationship during this reboot, focus on that love. I made that mistake and I lost the love of my life over it. Communicate with her, lean on her for support. If she really loves you, then she'll do it as long as you are making the effort to change.

 

Yeah they are attractive,but the whole thing of it is a lie.You are never going to have sex with those women in your real life,thats what i fully realised when i finished watching two days ago,porn is a fucking lie i think a part of me is starting to hate it

 

100 agree, porn is litteraly one big ponzie scheme and lie aimed to make you weak

 

This sentiment is one that I feel rotted my mind during my last relationship. I was with a great woman, but there was a part of me that wasn't satisfied with the relationship. I felt like I couldn't be, all because my mind knew of this intense sexual attraction that I couldn't find in the relationship.

I know now how much of a caustic mental trap that was. Ultimately, it is an emotional connection that fulfills us. For men, we want that physical attraction, but if you can move past all of the confusion and outright manipulation that our culture perpetrates, if you can move to emotional attraction, it is so much more deeply felt than that temporary physical attraction. If you can really emotionally connect, it can even add and amplify the physical attraction to your partner. Maybe it's not the same attraction as that felt towards the online harem of nubile women , but it shouldn't be. That stuff really is a drug, distilled far beyond anything that occurs in nature, manufactured with the pure intent of trying to get something from of you. Maybe it's real in some experiential sense, but it's completely empty, and will leave you feeling the same.

 

Isn't it rather the other way around? neither masturbation nor being aroused by seeing other members of your species having sex is particularly distinctive of humans, others animals do it too both in captivity and in the wild.
But being aroused by a miniaturized imagery however only happens in captivity with animals having extended contacts with humans much more so than their own kind and even then it is mostly unsuccessful to initiate procreation, it works best with primates but typically they prefer to just wank one rather than have sex with the female.

To me this seems like rationalizing an unacceptable or harmful behavior, if man want to further the bloodline this badly why is he the only primate that practice monogamy, why the evolutionary move? and what is the reason for women doing so? If someone is a junkie or is an alcoholic mostly it means that he enjoy drugs or alcohol like a pmo or sex addict enjoy masturbation which is typically more pleasurable than sex. Then there is also the fact that humans like others primates have sex much more for pleasure than procreation as couples will mate even when there is no chance of procreation such as oral sex, while the female is lactating or pregnant or even like others primates with others of the same sex.

It probably have more to do with boredom and endorphin or any of the others drugs released during sexual activities than a desire to procreate especially since the less sex you have the less you think about it.

 

Is it because they are so attractive because they are naked and have a makeup artist? You do realize they get plastic surgery and exercise? Porn is a fantasy.

 

It’s because porn is a drug. The problem with porn is that those videos and images can stay with you if you don’t plan on rebooting. I still remember pornstars after watching one of them in a video, even after five years.

Even if you live in a country that restricts porn, you can easily bypass restrictions by either a VPN or going on the dark web.

 

I think the best way to stay out of it is to realize that you are not the guy who is having sex with the girl. You are just watching them having sex. Even though I agree that some performers like Nicole Aniston would also look good without makeup.

 

look up "meditations on the foul" of Buddhism. if you visualize (medical footage)of autopsies, surgeries etc, youll grow distant from the allures of bodily beauty of p-rn prostitutes.
you need to switch it on and off when you're dealing with real women and with pixel-women bodies .But i trust your judgemenet can do it if you learn the proper meditations.

 

Just the exact kind of stuff I wrestle with when I see another woman who appears physically attractive either in real life or on the internet

 

guys(admins) don't block me for saying this please.
As the author say, i also agree, i never in my life seen this beautiful girls as in porn, oh god they are so beautiful and sometime i feel disturbed to seen them being destroyed or for them to choose this path of po*n industry. I dare not to say there names but they are below 24 and thats too quite shocking, they all are young and they are doing this for money. sometimes i think i should marry ( my fav pstar in addicted days ) and help her recover from this po*n industry.

 

I agree with you, the women in P are very attractive. The problem is, almost everything is fake in these clips. I am realizing how women actually feel and want during s and not what the P industry is showing. It is like in Commercials, they want us to buy the product, so they make it look awesome and good and we buy it. P shows fake lusting, love body shapes (huge P) and fake wanting.