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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Ricktrick, Jun 27, 2019.

  1. Ricktrick

    Ricktrick Fapstronaut

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    Hi, today’s my first day. I found out about this From another person who has relapsed. I met him on a chat site, a chat site where you masturbate with each other. We started and he mentioned something that got me curious so I asked him. He told me all about it and it started ringing true to me. We didn’t continue with our original plans because I got on the website and started reading about this. I haven’t been in a relationship for over 10 years. I’ve relied on pornography and masturbation. I recently met someone I really like and when we have sex it’s hard for me to orgasm. I know it’s because I’m so used to masturbating. I had to tell my new friend this because he felt that I wasn’t turned on to him. I want to be able to experience what I used to experience when I was younger. So I’m not going to look at porn, get on those chat sites or masturbate. My motivation is to have a normal sex life with someone else and to be in love. I want to be fulfilled by the person I love and not by my own selfish desires. I am 60 years old and have always been younger in heart and body than my age. So I know it’s never too late to start anew. I’m going to start out with a 30 day goal. No porn no masturbation. But I’m still going to have sex with my new friend. I think I can do this. I hope the guy that introduced me to this will be OK I wish him luck. But I’m not gonna go back to the chat site to find out what he did.
    Thanks for reading this
     
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  3. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    - You can set up your day counter here
    - You can find the forum usage guide here
    - Here is we’re you will find a glossary of terms often used in the nofap community. Glossary
    - You can also find a guide to the basics of rebooting here
    - If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     

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