I'm thinking of going back to porn

Hey buddy, trust me there's really more to it than you think.

First off your mindset is "I don't think I'll be getting" blah blah.

I told myself this too.

"Not like I want a girlfriend or anything"

And through the span of 2 years I've met countless girls I could have gotten into a serious relationship or slept with yet I couldn't because of PIED and my porn addiction.

The bottom line is: You will most likely meet a girl or get into a situation where you'd tell yourself, "Wow, I wish I'd stopped PMO early". I know my counter shows a lower number of days, but that's the whole point of this website. The point of having a website is to show that it's actually fucking difficult to quit this bullshit addiction which is ruining our lives. Your mindset makes you living proof of how pathetic and weak porn can make you because of instant gratification and you're accepting it. So take my advice and actually try it out and go out and socialize more. I don't despise you at all for making this thread, I just believe you needed advice and now the rest is up to you .

 

What an appalling comment. I'm not going to be getting any sex either but I'm not doing it to get some but to not do something which has robbed my life of any meaning and taken away almost everything I hold dear. If you want to grab a wad of tissues, pull your pants down and ejaculate over fantasy then go for it. Don't keep talking about it and stop with the rationalizations. Just fire up your favourite Tube site and shoot out your life force to it if that's what you're about.

 

Go against your own judgement, kid.

Old people don't give all this advice because they have fun telling a bunch of BS to younger people. And we old people know what it's like to be the kid, being given advice freely.

Take the best advice you can: go against your own judgement and do what everyone is saying.

 

oh shutup, your not the only fucker on this site who has the exact same problem, this is clearly a comment seeking attention crap we dont need. stop bieng a bitch. im 16 and before i tried to quit obviously and i questioned the same as you, why quit? im not slamming some chick anytime soon right? im still a virgin and im not getting fuck all yet. but i dont bitch about it, or maybe i have, point is you are not the only one, so stop acting like it

 

yeah may be abit hard but this is what tough love is called

 

literally all my friends have had sex and most of them have relationships, some bounce from girl to girl and some stay commited, some of my friends close or not have lost their girlfriends they have been with for months, and some just get continuous sex. im the ONLY one who has NOT had SEX nor EVER been in a RELATIONSHIP im a pathetic outsider loser clearly. thought i should get this off my mind and yeah, this is why alot of people want to fuck other people

 

if its been a year and im in the same situation as HornyKid i will probably kill might/have suicidal thoughts

 

correct. finally a fucker that see's it

 

i agree, this guy is immensly stubborn and seems to resent ALL forms of help or advice, although alot of people were at his stage before so cut him some slack

 

So am i not? I have anxiety disorder and social anxiety, panic attacks... You name it. All the things that you mentioned, i only don't have one thing... And that is, my sweet friend, its called being a pussy.

 

LOL go play with other kids

 

sorry, had a moment of anger. i'll delete that comment

 

Without porn you will have more selfconfidence, I believe for the most people without porn , people around you will notice that you are different in a good way. Porn will give you more depressiveness, less self confidence and some other side effects. don't do it, you will get the girl or woman you are looking for !!

 

I am addictted to porn although i had girlfriends,casual sex as you call it , regular sex partners and i still watch porn and masturbate. Watching porn and masturbating is not corelated with having sex with a partner.

 

It doesn't make a bit of difference. If you lost your virginity tonight, you'd feel the same in the morning. I know. I thought it would change my life - it didn't. And the fact that it didn't only made it hurt worse the day after.