I'm thinking of going back to porn

Whining isn't going to get help - I tried that for longer than you've been alive.
The more you post, the more you remind me of myself. I don't mean that as an insult, just an observation.
I would like to find meaning in this dying world, but I'm not sure it even exist.
And whenever I get a bit better, there's always someone there who tries to grab me and pull me back down into the pit of misery. Why can't people just help each other? It would be so much simpler.

 

Preach

 

Hay man going back to porn doesnt help the situation, the more you go back to it the more it will be a problem. Your 17 dont listen to the stupid stuff that ppl online say ur stronger and smarter than that. Theres a video on one of my threads its intersting and might help u with ur situation check it out if u want

 

You know he doesn't care? 8 full pages of people trying to support him and all he says usually is *im not getting sex anytime soon so I mightaswell go back to porn* he is stating it like the world owes him to lose his virginity

 

Hay I think he does care becuz if he didnt he wouldnt post this and he would just leave the community if he is posting this he may be asking or sendig a cry for help you never know

 

He is negating support all the time

 

Alright whatever u say but tbh thats not what he says u never know whats going on at home dont know if hes busy or not bye

 

Your in denial my friend. Go look through the entire thread. Then come back

 

You cant just accept yourself mate

 

Thing is if someone is open to taking advice or if they are in denial/victim mode, the thing to do is the same. You give them the advice as though they were open to taking it.

To be really fatalistic and arrogant, the only difference is that the ones giving the advice know whether that someone has years of pain ahead of them or has somehow saved themselves. The ones giving advice know the person better than they do themselves. They were them. Funny, it almost feels like betrayal in way, "knowing" I can't help the younger me when I see it but trying anyway, as though if I do understand who I was, why do I bother? Because you give them the advice as though they were open to taking it anyway, hoping maybe somehow this one is different.

 

OK i see what u mean now hes not ponding or listening :/ it kind of gets me annoyed man

 

thanks for your understanding