fucking wet dream

Reverse kegels you do when you try to force the urine flow to go faster, the taoists believe it would train the kidneys and increase sexual energy. But they had some other name for it, I think.

Take care

 

I completely agree.
Im noticing that curving my diet has made such a huge difference for me. I think that was all that I really needed to do. I eat much less now, and I follow the Ayurvedic food combination rules so my digestion is much stronger and has much less work to do. I feel better than I ever have now, energy wise, mentally, memory, clarity, will-power. Today I fasted all day, will resume eating again tomorrow morning. I meditated for 3 hours today, did yoga, and cut-stacked wood for a few. I was surprised on how well it went, first fast since last summer. Guarantee no wet dreams tonight!!

 

Thanks for the info, The Taoists are so full of knowledge! Ill be checking it out.

 

Your discipline is inspiring!

 

Saw this post and made me think of a question.

I haven't had a wet dream in years. I honestly can't think of the last time I had one. I'm assuming that's a consequence of my porn/masturbation problem? I thought up to this point that only some people suffered from wet dreams, not that it was a normal thing.

So I guess my question is, are wet dreams normal for people, and are they the beginning signs of recovery?

 

I've only just started and funnily enough started a Kundalini Yoga Kryia the day before and haven't had any WD's to speak of. I've started swimming as well. I'm loving the felling of energy within, and can't stop looking at my naked body... Is that weird? Not sure. This is the longest I think I've ever gone without fapping since I was 14. I do want to have sex with my wife though, so for my 30 days of PMO, I don't see having sex with my wife (which I really look forward to now, as opposed to being fearful of before I started this)as a bad thing. As you say CITRATOX, this is about abstinence from PMO and not retaining our seed. Retaining seed is a benefit, but a healthy sex life is important for a marriage, so I put that first! That's just me though...

 

A wet dream isn't a relapse. Plain and simple. No matter what you're feeling, the fact is you haven't relapsed.

 

Thank you!

No I wouldn't say that they are the beginning signs of recovery, some people have lustier minds than others so that is a major part of the wet dreams. Everyone is different and has a different lifestyle, a different mind, so everyone's body responds differently to the reboot faze, but generally we are still the same if that makes any sense. Some people are older and have less libido and their body creates less semen, or some of the younger folk have never had a mature body without PMO. Some people work hard labor and burn off the energies and testosterone that build up, and some don't. Some people stuff themselves when they eat, and some go lightly. I don't consider wet dreams a sign that you have rebooted, but a sign that your body is figuring out how to deal with the changes that are occurring, and doesn't quite yet have a fix for the problem of still having lusty thoughts but no spillage. Most who curve their PMO problem learn that continuing to look at porn or stare at hot women and fantasize about them only makes the act of fapping harder to ignore so they stop looking at women the same sexual way to a point, or as much, and this means that there is less of a buildup of sexual energy trapped in the genital area with nowhere to go. One thing I have noticed is the increased dream and visualization power in my minds eye when I have contained my semen for a while, so this also promotes more lifelike stimulation from lusty thoughts. We also get more sensitive from lack of touch in the genital region so that is why sleeping on the stomach promotes Wet dreams in many. Over time the body figures out how to transmute the slow and steady build of semen, and move it up into other ways of expression. Maybe you are older and have had a good sex life before your PMO problem so it is easier for your body to remember its job (like muscle memory). Be happy that you aren't battling wet dreams, your luckier than many recovering fappers!

Nice!, The Kundalini Yoga is most definitely helping your body open the channels needed for transmuting and redirecting the energy upward to be expressed in more positive ways then PMO. Swimming is also a great way to transmute the energies, and prevent the buildup of sexual energy in the genital region. The cool water helps tons. I don't think its weird that you like to look at yourself naked, what ever floats your boat, as long as your not fantasizing.
The wife and sex thing is a whole another ballgame, and that is where tantra comes in. The key in tantra is control. The Taoists also teach lots of techniques for intercourse without spilling your seed, and this is one of their key beliefs in immortality (long healthy life). Sexual intercourse between male/female is amazing for us because it balances the Yin/Yang energies. Males also absorb hormones from the female when penetrated that do wonders for our bodies. Sexual magic or (Arcanum azf) is a key to complete self realization and destroying the ego when performed with love and correctly. Nothing wrong with sex but you turn into a king and the wife turns into a queen when you both refrain from orgasm. Orgasm dumps your Kundalini energy.

 

The brain knows what a wet dream is as it creates them, the only problem here is receiving a dopamine kick from porn.

 

This thread is ridiculous.

There is only one question that we should be asking ourselves: are nocturnal emissions natural? Yes.

Follow up: do people that don't PMO get wet dreams? Yes.

Most people that PMO don't get wet dreams because they have no sexual tension. People that abstain from PMO get them when they are not sexually active.

Orgasms to porn are the UNNATURAL problem here fellas. Why try to fight something natural? It makes no sense lol. That's like saying: "Hey! Stop shitting! It's dirty, unnatural, and sets you back from being sanitary."

 

You're ridiculous. Thread maker asked what to do about wet dreams cause he felt he had been set back. Whether is natural or not, they are not desirable. Wet dreams are not natural, the sperm cells shall connect with an egg, not with your sheets.

 

Had one last night. Its natural baby.

 

I threw up last night but I'm happy. This is probably my body's natural way of getting rid of too much food. And it must be a sign that I'm recovering from obesity

 

Forcing yourself to throw up is not natural, but the reflex of throwing up is. Food poisoning for example.

That's a great analogy to fapping. Wet dreams are natural... But forcing yourself to O to porn is not.

And please stop saying they're not natural based on your opinion-based-facts.

Every single male has had a wet dream since the history of history.

Oh clumsy, you're so clumsy

 

How can vomiting be a sign of recovery in any way or form? Vomiting occurs due to a gastro-instestinal virus, or like NeuroPlasticDray said, food poisoning. The only reason your body will vomit is to rid whatever was in your stomach for a reason, not because your recovering from obesity.

 

Of course, I was sarcastic. Wet dreams occur among humans because of our tendency to commit errors - because of our lively imagination.

And vomiting is a natural process - but it's a pathological process, just like wet dreams.

In some months if you make it that far, you will have wet dreams every night. And if you don't treat it, you'll lose your progress entirely, and you don't want that to happen. It's the biggest challenge of the reboot.

 

If a man is pure and keep his mind fresh and free from erotic thoughts he will not suffer semen loss during nights. That is a fact and I don't understand how you can even want to have wet dreams! It's wasting of your vital force.

 

Clumsy, wet dreams are INVOLUNTARY, meaning people don't go to sleep anticipating them. They happen NATURALLY.

 

NO! It's a pathological process, a common result of excessive masturbation and impure thoughts. They should be avoided at all costs. And they don't happen naturally, it's an error caused by imagination. It's only a problem among humans. And even if they happen naturally, they should be fighted against.

 

I don't understand how it can be naturally for our precious semen, the very essence of our life energy, to be wasted out in the toilet, or on the sheets. The only "natural" way for a sperm cell to go is into a woman's vagina.