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fucking wet dream

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Heelhook, Sep 11, 2014.

  1. Heelhook

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    I had a wet dream and it felt i relapsed , how much of a setback for the reboot is this, al the benefits seem to not be clear today, old anxiety little back. Yet i didnt fucking want this, i am 7 days in and i dont wanna fucking relapse .
     
  2. Fargo

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    Nocturnal emissions ("wet dreams") are natural occurrences and are not masturbation. There's nothing you can do about wet dreams; it's just your body dealing with accumulated sexual tension.
     
  3. Clumsy

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    Not necessary a relapse but it's equal to a fap session, as you could see yourself. So you've been a little set back. Try to sleep on your side, and avoid eating too much food, especially before bedtime. Don't dwell upon erotic thoughts during the daytime, because that will most likely trigger a wet dream at night.

    And don't listen to the ignorant people that soon will come into this thread and say that wet dream is just your body's natural way of releasing too much sperm. They don't know what they're talking about.
     
  4. Geyser

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    Wet dreams don't count. In fact, anything done while asleep doesn't count.

    The idea is to stop the conscience use of PMO.

    No worries. You are doing great.

    Keep the fight,

    Geyser
     
  5. Fargo

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    Who the hell is even thinking so ?, is it even possible to have "too much sperm" ?
     
  6. Clumsy

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    There's a lot of people thinking so. And why should he not try to avoid wet dreams if he feels that it does set him back? Wet dreams are easily avoided. EASY.
     
  7. Fargo

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    hmmm I don't have them (for now) but can you send me PM with more info about avoiding it ?, or is there a thread about that ?
     
  8. Thackeray

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    Had one the other day, the first in years. I felt like crap the day after (maybe connected- clumsy will say so:)), but it was better than fully relapsing and going back to porn. The day before I had very lustful thoughts which I believe contributed. I think it could also partly also be your subconscious holding on to those old ways, the old habits that we repeated for so long. It's the lingering affect of years of masturbation and porn consumption possibly.
     
  9. NeuroPlasticDray

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    * sigh *

    Nocturnal emissions are natural. They don't count as a relapse. It's a natural bodily process.

    If anything, it should be viewed as a good thing for no PMOers, as it's proof you haven't been fapping-- the body is emptying your over-filled sac.
     
  10. astrofighter

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    I certainly wouldn't reset my counter on that, if it's not something that's my fault. I haven't as much as peaked at a 'naughty' music video since starting.
     
  11. Thackeray

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    Don't let Clumsy read this. He'll go apeshit.:eek:
     
  12. Clumsy

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    Throwing up is a perfectly natural process, it's the body's natural way of getting rid of unnecessary foods. It's a sign that you're recovering from obesity.
     
  13. BullseyeChris

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    Sorry, but wet dreams ARE your body's natural way of dealing (not with too much sperm), but with built-up fluids and probably sexual tension and the desire for orgasm. If that's not what they are, then what are they?!

    Personally, I've always felt awesome after having one--libido high and positive in general, but I realize everyone is different. Granted, having one after only a week of abstinence is pretty quick, but for some guys, that's all it takes. But since it was so quick, you might be feeling down or with low energy bec it hasn't been that long since fapping, so you body is still kind of worn out. If you have gone a long time w/out fapping, for most guys, a WD (wet dream) is a welcome (and guilt-free) release, and one usually doesn't feel emotionally drained or down afterward, but slightly energized, if anything. (Not saying this is universal).

    But I do wonder if psychology is part of it--if you see WDs as a negative thing, either a type of relapse, or something shameful or embarrassing, then, you may feel down afterwards for that very reason. Your brain is treating it with the same kind of guilt you feel for MB. But if instead you see WDs as a natural, healthy, positive thing, a reward for not tapping, even, then you will be happy when you get one. For most of us, it's not the fact that you get an orgasm that is wrong, or sexual pleasure per se, it is the habitual bondage that easily comes with frequent masturbation, and the ways that porn can mess us up through it's usually perverted images, and just the way we become dependent upon it and how that can harm our real relationships with people.

    I guess if you just think that any O that you get that's not from sex is absolutely wrong, then you will feel down and guilt no matter what. But a WD isn't caused by your conscious mind, nor is it watching porn, so you can't equate it with MB or porn. I don't think it affects your brain or reboot in the same way. Just keep moving fwd to greater freedom and sexual wholeness!
     
    Last edited: Sep 11, 2014
  14. Dad

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    I could be all wrong, but I hope I have a wet dream. I don't think I've ever had one. I've been jacking off every day since before I could ejaculate. I personally wouldn't count this as a conscious act of deciding to partake in self pleasure. Its the thought that counts as they say. Having a wet dream, to me, would be a sign that my body knows what to do and when to do. I think that it's beautiful. Stay the course.
     
  15. IGY

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    You say that vomiting is a sign that you are recovering from obesity - WHAT! Please, please stop these unsubstantiated claims about what is 'natural' and what is 'unnatural'. Your extreme views are misleading and potentially damaging top others, especially regarding sexual stuff.
     
  16. Clumsy

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    No I don't feel guilt, I just feel bad cause I have been set back...

    nocturnal emissions are withdrawal symptoms. So you really believe, seriously, that your body must release and waste energy? The sperm shall connect with an egg, not with your sheets. After all those years of PMO addiction, your body is in great need of a release, you really believe that?

    He said clearly that he felt like he had been set back, so I tried to help him. Why does it have to be natural to be drained out? Why? Please think with your own brain.
     
  17. beauty

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    Had one last night, don't feel a big difference today, if any at all.

    Clumsy, why do you say wet dreams are a setback? Is this just your personal opinion? Or did you read it somewhere? Please elaborate. Because if it just is your personal opinion, then you cannot expect people, who disagree with you entirely, to even take what you're saying seriously.
     
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  18. IGY

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    Do you remember the erotic dream beauty? Did you wake up and experience the orgasm or did you discover the semen on your sheet when you woke up later?
     
  19. Clumsy

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    Good for you. There's a huge problem with wet dreams though, they increase in frequency after a while for some PMO addicts... First they get once a month, then once every three weeks, and some guys I've talked to report 3-4 ejaculations during one single night, leaving them absolutely drained... And of course all benefits washed away in just one night. You're just 17 days in... You shall carefully watch the frequency of your wet dreams, make sure they don't increase in frequency... You don't want to have a wet dream thrice a week, that's no good.

    But the problem become HUGE when ejaculations occurs without being accompanied by dreams! That's truly nocturnal emissions.
     
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  20. beauty

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    It's kind of an odd experience to be honest... I've had quite a few of them, so when I am having them in my dream state, I am slightly aware but I am not conscious though. I usually wake up right after though, and this is when I came to realize what happened. And yes I do remember the erotic dream, but it had nothing to do with P so I'm happy about that.
     

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