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Well put. I don't typically respond to posts like the one you responded to because it could lead to beating a dead horse...trying to explain to someone who has zero experience in the area can be exhausting...glad you chimed in though as your response is absolutely on point.

Again, I'm not going to add my "2 cents" because it counterproductive to the intent of the post.

Thank you again @Bradziggler1990! Wishing you the best!

 

The intent of the post was a guy struggling with escorts and ultimately seeking support and advice. And eventually wanting to overcome his addiction. He’s not been active on the forum for over a month so hope he’s doing well.

This isn’t a post id usually respond to as it’s not something I’ve experienced. But after reading every message on this post what I see is multiple guys struggling with this addiction. And I know @GeorgeJetson it can be ‘exhausting’, possibly due to that deleted account which was arguing with you.

I noticed that you’re married also, does your wife know of your addiction? I’ve not replied to this thread to be nosey or to force you guys to do anything. I’m on this website to not only seek help when I need it but to help others. And if you guys have closed yourself off advice wise to people like myself who haven’t used an escort then your not doing yourself and favours.

Sometimes having an observer looking in is beneficial. For instance if you guys were in an abusive or controlling relationship and thinking it was normal an outsider looking in is beneficial to say look that’s not normal due to x y and z.

@GeorgeJetson on your daily log you’re on day 60 plus which is amazing. Whatever you’re doing keep it up. But like I said don’t close yourself off advice wise to people who are outsiders and simply wants to help. If you want help n advise or want to talk do so if not. All the best with the journey.

 

@Smartman-foolsbody : Just to clarify, there was actually no argument between me and the Deleted User...you must have misread because him and I are in complete agreeance. It was actually another member (I won't call him out) who temporarily derailed the post. That user was reported and his posts were removed. However, you can see the username in the quotes the Deleted User was quoting...as well as the actual snippets of what the reported user was saying.

Me and the deleted user were actually very close buds for a while on this site...chatting almost daily via direct message. He struggled with escorts too but left the site because of the type of people he was arguing with...people he said came from very conservative eastern countries. Regardless, it's unfortunate because he was an asset to this community.

Lastly, thanks for the virtual bro hug. That was nice of you and I definitely appreciate it...and thanks for your contributions.

Wishing you the best.

 

I’m new to the forum. This thread has been very helpful as I struggle with the same thing. @GeorgeJetson, your experience particularly resonates with me as I’m in my 40s and married with a child making the stakes even higher. I

I was out of the game (escorts and Strip Clubs mostly) for a dozen years but lately I’ve been browsing ads and reviews for MPs obsessively. I want to stop and found that the 90 day no pmo has been a good starting point. I’m 8 days in, so far so good.

 

Hey man. Feel free to message me. I would be happy to chat.

 

Thanks man. It is a complicated issue for me. I think being with sex workers changed how I look at sex, kind of like the way porn changed how I look at women. My hope is that putting in the 90 days might undo some of that but deep down I know it will take more work than that.

I had normalized the behavior in my youth. My father wasn’t shy about sharing his experiences and I was a semi pro poker player, so I was around folks who shared my lack of impulse control and it threw my moral compass out of whack.