90 Days - JOIN ME

Discussion in 'Rebooting' started by fookeh, Sep 22, 2016.

  1. MattAttack

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    Is anyone else experiencing anti-social behaviour? I just don't want to talk to people on the weekends. Hopefully is just a phase. Or I've just need some new adventurous friends haha
     
  2. The Blue Ocean

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    Actually it is somewhat the same for me somehow...
    I need adventure-friends! :D
     
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  3. MattAttack

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    I actually don't mind the anti-socialism. Gives me more time to think about how to improve my life and well being
     
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  4. fookeh

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    I'm still alive and still swinging - 9 days to go.

    I stayed away from this site because I was going through a phase where I would think about porn every time I came to this site and it made me think about it more. But now, it doesn't phase me. I still think about porn from time to time, but it's a different perspective, I don't look at it the same way. Yeah, get me hammered and put porn on, I would probably fap, but level minded and sober, I don't feel the attraction anymore. And when I do, I can't do anything about it anyway because I have k9 installed. Up to this point, I can count on one hand how many times I've fapped since May 20: 5. So as I approach 90 days, I also consider that I've only fapped 5 times in the last 206 days. That in itself is something I'm happy with.

    Point is, even if you're struggling, find the small victories and build on them. It's a journey, not a destination. You're going to have hiccups, and that's alright. No one is perfect. Just be better than you were yesterday.
     
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  5. MattAttack

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    So had a bit of a set back, was going well until the New Years drinks started flowing. Waking up hungover and just not giving any fucks, it happend. Not happy about it, but I do think I've made good progress and this is just a minor setback, hopefully.
     
  6. The Blue Ocean

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    I don't know what happened with me, but I failed today.

    But we need to learn from our mistakes (I know I have to ).
     
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  7. fap_caeser

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    #Joint Fookeh, sorry to hear about the issues you face, I pray these next 90 days will make you realise that PMO could be the sole reason. I believe it's the reason I'm not as proactive as I used to before all the fapping started.

    I was brilliant sportsman who never procrastinated, I did my work and worked hard at it. I sometimes am able to go a week without porn but then I end up on my back due to it.

    I'm engaged so it'll be PM for me, unless I can get the consent of my Yançe to join you on the 90 days hard-core. I think it would be nice to have a wet dream. I last had one in 2015 and it's only clicking now that it was due to no organ cause of having no time for it at all to PMO our even have a quickie with the Mrs.

    I'll tell you if she gives me the go ahead, of not, I'll join you with the PM. This is my first challenge and it still be the longest I haven't fapped for I'm over 12 years. Mind you I've had gfs for like 8 of those years and the last 3 have been the Yançe.
     
  8. MattAttack

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    My mistakes were having caffeine too late in the day, wide awake at night and not knowing what to do, then before I know it I'm watching porn. I feel like I need to get away from all the screens and technology for a while haha. No one said this was going to be easy, still going to keep trying until porn is out of my mind for good!
     
  9. fap_caeser

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    sorry to hear about your slip man, it happens to the best of us. I'm yet to walk on a banana peel and slip and that's all part of God's grace. Him willing I'll never walk on one for the rest of my life. It's actually day 7 since my last incident and I'm going stronger and stronger.

    I spoke to the Mrs & she said she's not make any promises on her side but of she gets aroused she might not be able to contain herself, so I have been warned.... So I'm guessing its strictly PM for me, which is what I want to deal with. Let's you on your feet and back on the wagon, there's no time dwelling over spoilt milk. I'll keep you in my prayers, I know 90 days won't be hard.

    I think the libido factor is happening to me. I don't wanna test it out and tarnish my progress. I read on all the withdrawal symptoms of PMO. Glad this is the one that's hitting me. The 1st one was the worst, it was some insane urge, I was literally a split second away from going into what is to be my favourite site.

    but thank God for NoFap!!!
     
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  10. The Blue Ocean

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    I know exactly what you mean. I have sometimes been up late and things gets out of control! :(
    And it's sometimes the same for me about screens and tech. But I realized (in my case) that I don't necessary have to avoid my computer, but the things the triggers me.

    Stay strong! :)


    I love your attitude - "by never walk on one for the rest of my life" - you ment that you learnt from your mistakes, right? :)

    Stay strong! :)
     
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