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90 Days - JOIN ME

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fookeh, Sep 21, 2016.

  1. Mr.pants

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    Starting week 3. Still going strong! We got this guys!
     
  2. fookeh

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    Keep it going guys, well done so far.

    Yesterday was brutal. I had depression, anxiety and couldn't focus on anything. I made it through the day and am more productive and present today. Just makes me tougher.

    Have a great day, everyone. I'm nearing a week and am looking forward to that.
     
  3. cTx

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    I think i've been going thru a flatline during the last couple days. I'm on day 7 now. I feel kind of in a blahhh mood. Not feeling too high but not too low. No big urges or cravings. Still dealing with some brain fog. Overall definitely better than i was on day 1.

    Keep trudgin guys !
     
  4. 12ove

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  5. fookeh

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    Monday was just hell for me. I was all over the place. I wasn't thinking about porn but I was definitely not myself. I was a train wreck. I had probably one of the most unproductive days at work I've had in a very long time. I chewed off all my nails (gross, I know), which is typically anxiety related.

    Yesterday was better but not really until the afternoon after I went for a run. I find when I get like this, I tend to waste all my time looking at facebook, email, and online gaming and I can't stay focused and/or concentrate.

    Today will be a better day - all of you on here, wherever you are in your journey, remember to take it one day at a time and remember that this is a marathon, not a sprint. You're not alone.

    Have a great day and stay strong!
     
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  6. Dabo

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    Thanks bros, I am in I am on days 15. Let's do it
     
  7. Stay strong everyone .u can do it .
     
  8. Goodnessandmercy

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    Today is Day 1. I've been beaten down too long.
     
  9. cTx

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    Today is day 9 for me. I'm still in a flatline i think where my overall mood is "meh" ... no real urges or cravings. Not in a bad mood but not feeling too good either. Still better than i was on the first couple of days. Just need to embrace this & wait for it to pass
     
  10. Dabo

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    Today I am still clean the urge to P, MO is not strong. But a little bit bored since I've travelled I am not at work. I hope to end this day clean tomorrow i will be back to work to stay busy.
     
  11. Colin R

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    Im in dude. First day on this site and forum and looking for some people to do this together. 90 days, hard mode. Lets get after it.
     
  12. Herecuzineedit

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    I'm new to this...so I don't know how it works but I'm with you and I would like to quite as well.
     
  13. fookeh

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    Welcome to the forum - all you have to do is stay away from porn. There are kind of two challenges you can take - "hard mode" is no fapping with, or without porn. Some folks take the other challenge, I guess you could call it 'soft mode' - where they fap, but not to porn.

    The goal ultimately, is to quit watching porn forever, but for some, just getting a day, week, or month is an achievement in itself, so wherever you're at, set a reasonable goal for yourself. I've gone 70 days before, so I am going to try and get to 90, and then hopefully, never watch it again.

    To everyone else, stay strong, keep going and take it one day at a time. I am nearing 10 days. Not much, but a 9th of the way to the goal. I'll take it.
     
  14. fookeh

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    Finally starting to come out of the fog. Finally starting to feel normal again. My brain is slowly ridding itself of all the stuff I mentioned in my original post. It wont happen overnight, it took 11 days, but I'm starting to feel different, in a good way.
     
  15. BenBozonian

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    Glad to hear you are doing well fookeh.
    I am on day 9 and taking it one day at a time. I already feel better in so many ways than I did on Day 1. Some days are good and some a little less but keep fighting brother.
     
  16. Padel69

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    New member from today. Started by myself 2 days ago and going for the 90 to start with, but one day at the time, but I am very serious, it has taken over my life completely, and the things I watched is to bad to mention, this needs to stop. Longest I ever lasted before is 10 days. So this is gonna be tough. Hope this forum can help me out. I installed Qustodio on all my gadgets, erased tinder and insta-apps, told my closest friend about my addiction and that I am now trying to quit. Good luck to all of us!
     
  17. fookeh

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    Glad to see there are lots of people on this thread. Let's stick together and support each other!

    I'm still lacking motivation, but I think that's just laziness in my part. I am feeling pretty good today. Hope you all are too.

    Stay strong. One day at a time!
     
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  18. Dabo

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    Yeah we are together bro, I am on days 20. I am feeling amazing I am more determined to win this battle than ever before. I made myself busy no free time, I meditate everyday and most of all I read a lot. I recommend this book to all of you guys. The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. One of the best book I ever read. Good luck to all, let's win the battle
     
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  19. fookeh

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    Moving onward, two weeks today. Time has gone by fast. Hope you're all doing well. Next checkpoint is 20 days. One day at a time.
     
  20. parkurman123

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    I m on the 6th week without fap, and I feel strong. It's been over 3 months since I watched porn, and I feel perfect. I feel I'm becoming smarter and make better decisions in everyday life. We all can reach the finish line.
     
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