1 year SR club anyone?

That is unfortunate. I never have WD. As a matter of fact, I only rememberber kind of sort of have one when I was in my early teens. I believe personally, that has to do with the involuntary nature certain mechanisms become when atrophied or falls out of use. If u don't use something or ignoring it, are u truly mastering it? Or are u just ignoring it? Typically issues that u ignore, u allow it to fester. This is why I choose tantra over celibacy, although periods of celibacy can be contained within tantra, but not vice versa. My thoughts

 

Focus on breathing. I can get distracted between exhaust and intake, thats 1 second. Start there. Breathe in, breathe out, keep your mind focused on that. Its 1 second.

 

That's something you will have to find out on your own ;-)

 

I managed to hold back a wet dream the other night - can’t quite believe it worked!!

I’ve been practising kegel exercises for some months… and when the dream happened it just kicked in and I didn’t want to cum!!! I tightened up the muscles and breathed my way through it… almost scared to move for about 20
Minutes in case I shot my load in bed!!

but I didn’t! It worked. I’m half thinking now I’ve done this once it might be easier next time!! Does it get easier? What are the benefits of SR? Other than a dry bed!!

will wet dreams become less frequent if I do this?

 

Try to let the thoughts come to rest. That is the whole point. U have to want it more than anything else in that moment.

 

it’s where in you’re sleep you involuntarily O. Also known as a nocturnal emission.

More often a teenager thing as after that we are more sexually active - or perhaps at least MOing. If you don’t O then your body may use the semen it’s produced after 4 weeks or so - 4 weeks seems to by my timeline for WD if I stop all O.

I usually wake up as it’s happening - just to feel my cock pumping as it were. And the there is a wet mess in the bedsheets!! Probably happened 4 times in my adult life. Once since PMO free for 4 weeks… another 4 weeks after my circumcision when. I couldn’t O. Can’t recall the significance of the other but presumably i wasn’t getting any sex for a few weeks!!

 

.... active with my wife, but not releasing.... but, are you actually saying. How does your wife allow you to get away with this?

 

Get away with what exactly?

 

What nighttime emissions? Does that not happen to you?

 

No I do not have wet dreams

 

No.. just a sexual dream in general. But they can even happen without that.

 

@Yes I Can Man

Dear Yes I Can Man,

Firstly good morning and hope your having a great day. I am a Student Athlete at U of H coming up on my last few years of college and would really like to master semen retention before I graduate. However I unfortunately keep relapsing and can't seem to get back to my previous streaks. So I was told best way to appraoch this problem is find a mentor near by who has mastered it that can help me. Which brings me to you since your over a year I was hoping you could offer me In-person mentorship since we both live in same area of Sugarland TX. I'm willing to pay for services and we can meet at your desired locations/ public areas for mentorship. I just really need help and would like to end this semester free from porn and make Semen retention a lifestyle.

Thanks in advance from Palpo

 

Over here . I have achieved that destination