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Would you be able to never masturbate again?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by The worst is over, Apr 12, 2023.

  1. Spiritual Immunity

    Spiritual Immunity Fapstronaut

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    Don’t care.
     
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  2. Wow. Self damning. So good of you to at least admit that. So at least we know what we can expect from you, or just avoid you because we don't feel like getting cursed at or belittled that we dont see things your way.

    Thanks for revealing that to all of us.

    450 days. No PMO. How about you bro?
     
  3. Magic Bullets

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  4. Spiritual Immunity

    Spiritual Immunity Fapstronaut

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    Call it like it is dude, 450 days in a chastity cage that you don’t have the key to.
     
  5. Yep. Know what that means? It's working. I think about other things like encouraging others to stay on track with whatever they are doing that works for them. I get a lot of happiness from speaking kind and respectful to people.

    Here is how it works. When you spend time being rude, insulting and judgmental of other people, thats usually a sign of personal discontent and frustration with your own person within.

    However, when I show kindness, consideration, respect, compassion for other people, it just feels so good down to the depths of my soul, that I forget my own challenges and they are less distracting because I use my energies and thoughts to care for others first. Moving myself down the list of importance ends up occupying my mind with all that is good and wholesome. So I am thinking less about my masturbation problem and use my time and life in a far more productive way.

    I couldnt imagine being a rude person that throws out insults and calls people names. I would probably be grumbling hate under my breath and masturbating all day, while I call out everyone who doesn't think like me.

    That would totally suck. Who would do that?
     
  6. Yes I can do it, it’s a massive 214 days for me today,well it’s massive for me at least. This is an incredible journey.
     
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  7. Hehe
     
  8. nomo

    nomo Fapstronaut

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    Absolutely, but only if my dick fell off.
     
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  9. andyl

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  10. To be honest, for me the answer is no. I don't want to masturbate compulsively, but I don't see myself giving it up completely.

    For one, you'll just get a wet dream if you don't, so I'd still have stained sheets to clean one way or another. On the other hand, as many guys have reported, their sex drive eventually "recovers" after a period of PIED, but getting awkward boners isn't fun, especially in public. It can be irritating to deal with from time to time. I suppose maturbation has some benefits within moderation; it helps to prevent the "irritation" and "discomfort."

    On the other hand, I don't think I would do it with porn in front of me. I really want to quit adult content and remove it from my life completely. Sex isn't really meant to be so visual, and I find that PIED is caused by being glued to a screen, which grossly elevates your standards, making it harder to "finish."

    So in the end, I just accept that I'm a sexual creature. I'm going to feel sexual urges, porn or no porn. I think one problem with Nofap is that we conflate natural urges with a desire to relapse. I think it's important to separate the natural act from the synthetic compulsion. However, I think people should do what works for them.
     
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  11. andyl

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    Wow, you hit the nail on the head with that one! I'm 2 days into no pmo and my body is in constant pain. I have intense hard ons and then blue balls after and loads of pain. I'm debating stopping this had it not been for a visit to a doctor and him explaining the physical body things to me and that I'm not harming myself. I'm about to go out for a run, but I am waiting for a stupid bone to relax so I can leave my condo lol!
     
  12. oretna

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    I have occasionally my cage on. Sometimes it helps. Not always. I have a very practical attitude towards this and other ways to achieve no pmo. Of course the ultimate goal is to keep clean with no "external" help (incl. data blockers etc.) but I am just at 28 days, so I think almost all legal and no harm producing methods can be allowed.
     
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  13. Magic Bullets

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    How would a cage work if you had one on and had a nocturnal emmission?
     
  14. Antoniotrevi

    Antoniotrevi New Fapstronaut

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    Salve ! Avete qualche suggerimenti su integratori che facciano diminuire il livello di testosterone ?
     
  15. I am going to,
    As of now i'm only going to ejaculate with real women (i'm a virgin so it could take a long time),
    Or sleep ejaculation, but I haven't experienced those.

    I practiced nofap for a long time and now i'm UNBEATABLE. I'm dead serious, nothing can phase me.
     
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  16. Max-olivieri9500

    Max-olivieri9500 New Fapstronaut

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    Non mi masturbo dal 15 luglio 2023 . 4 mesi senza masturbarmi e senza avere rapporti sessuali . Noto veramente che aumenta la forza migliora udito vista olfatto ma i continui pensieri depressivi triplicano . Poi ogni figa che si vede per strada o in tv o sui social mi eccita tantissimo anche se brutta !
     
  17. Forever is a long time. I dont want to think forever about anything. Its too scary.
     
  18. Alarden

    Alarden Fapstronaut

    Forever seems too long.

    ONE DAY AT A TIME
    by Annie Johnson Flint (1866-1932)

    One day at a time to be patient and strong,
    To be calm under trial and sweet under wrong;
    Then its toiling shall pass and its sorrow shall cease;
    It shall darken and die, and the night shall bring peace.
     
  19. nomo

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    No, and I wouldn't have any reason to try. Even when I was having sex everyday with beautiful women, the occasional masturbation felt nice. It's like I am getting a massage for my soul. Some alone time with sexual pleasure is relaxing and nice.
     
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