Why do women play hard to get?

Oh, I do give you credit for that part.

 

I'm not sure that not wanting to mess about and waste time is desperation. Seems the opposite to me.

A.) This means that women who are upfront and direct do not value themselves?
B.) Are we talking about playing hard to get, or settling for individuals who lack any positive drive or ambition? I'm not seeing the connection.
C.) Objectively or subjectively? If the former, can you provide evidence? If the latter, can you explain your reasoning?

 

He's already wasted plenty of time hence his frustration. The amount of wasted time wreaked of desperation.

Don't be that asshole who overanalyzes people's statements.

Don't be that asshole who overanalyzes people's statements.

Congratulations! You're that asshole who overanalyzes people's statements.

Get |A| Life.

 

Do you know him personally? Are you implying that you're omniscient and omnipresent?

Does this imply that repeating a claim/statement/opinion makes it true? Do you have any supporting evidence?

How does overanalysis make one an "asshole"? Does this imply that overanalysis is "bad"? What about murderers and paedophiles who do not overanalyse anything? Are they good people/not assholes because they don't overanalyse?

Does the use of the | | imply an attempt at humour? I think this is the appeal to ridicule fallacy, wherein the one that employs this tactic does so thinking that the best insults will carry their position into the realm of correctness. Does making fun of something as arbitrary as a username on the internet support your position? If so, why? Any evidence to support this?

'Life' has a few meanings, but the common thread is a type of existence taking place after birth and before death. Does me pointing out the holes and fallacies in your position equate to me not being alive? Do I not exist? Does this mean that those who engage in debates do not exist because they point out the logic holes in the other's argument?

 

The fact that you wasted so much time with this response brings my lots of joy.

Thank you.

 

Why would you feel gratitude for someone else pointing out flawed logic and crude tactics used to support this flawed logic? Also, I don't find your definition of "waste of time" to be accurate. You continue misusing those words. Why?

 

I love you guys' high sense of humor! It's way over me, and makes me feel dumb

 

Read the book called "System" by Doc Love. It may be contraversial, but this book is pure gold. It teaches you to seek the special one! One main aspect of it is perfect SELF-CONTROL AND DISCIPLINE, so that is a perfect thing to practise along the NoFap. It will explain to you why women are "hard to get".

 

At 99 USD a pop I doubt he has the answer. Now, if you can get it free on the other hand . . .

 

You've asked an interesting question and it's impossible to tell since we don't know the specifics, but in general I would say women play hard to get, because:
1) It works, people are more attracted to people who are a little hard to get. The key here is "a little hard to get," anything more than a little hard to get is a problem.
2) Too hard to get means they don't like you. (sorry but true)
3) I would ask her out and get it over with. I've found there is really no such thing as a friend who is an attractive single women. Don't get me wrong, I have plenty of friends that are women, but the reason I didn't try to have a relationship with them before I was married is: they are not available because they are in a relationship or I'm not attracted to them physically. If there is any attraction, most people will want to take it to an intimate relationship, the friend thing is a myth.
4) What would be the benefit of "having a female friend who is a little bit wild?" To me it sounds like it would lead to me being sexually frustrated, not something I want to do.

 

I do think that if they're trying too hard, they should be upfront. That's the point of the thread. Rather than play games, simply state a lack of interest so everyone can get back to what they were doing.

 

I got my own copy at Scribdt. I would upload the book, but it is 60MB

If you think quite carefuly, you would not meet a single woman, knowing the meaning of word no - THEY WILL NEVER DIRECTLY SAY NO (unless you are a creep, and shes afraid of you ) . Its just the way it is. You got to get used to it.

 

You can post it on pastebin or one of those file share thingies. Dropbox is another.

I spoke with a woman who, when asked for her number, flatly said no, and I left it at that. No more questions, no begging, no bargaining. Naught but silence. Inversely, I know of the ones who agree to go on a date and keep you moving back and forth at the location the date is supposed to occur. Sorry, but I won't be getting used to that. Give me the direct stuff, all the time. Life's too short for games, and if you have the time to participate in them (whether designing or playing), you have too much idle time on your hands.

Time better spent . . . improving.

 

Hey there. As a woman, I will answer you not only with what I know, but with what I LIVE.
All people is different. Different people has different reactions. Women aren't the exception.
50 different women will give you 50 different responses depending on if they like you or not, if they're single or not, if they are straight or not, and if they are interested in romantic/sexual interactions.
The "play hard to get" game is a lie. At least for me. Maybe you should accept that she's just not interested and move on.
There aren't difficult women, there are just not-interested women and we all should respect each other decisions.

 

You must read the system, its exactly about these kind of things you describe. Like a translator and an indicator from woman language and behavour to show whether she is interested in you or not.
Its funny that the main thing accented in the book IS to ask for phone number right ahead. That way, you will get a sure picture. Not like you have to buy into those false signals, for asking her facebook or something.
can't even post an URL before i am member of two days. puted URL in the pad
EDIT: Maybe that file dropper is not good site to upload, ill find a better sharing option
2nd EDIT: I put the book on other uploading site, take a look

 

Nah. Generally, the "play hard to get" game is real, and very pathetic. As for difficult women being non-existent well, I think we both know that isn't true at all.

I will take a long, and I'd like for us to have more dialogue about this topic. I think it'll get many nofap newbs on the right track.

 

No, I don't "know that it isn't true". I don't think the same as you. Have you ever wondered why there aren't any men classified as hard to get?

 

Not sure we're talking about men. In any case, if you don't know it that's fine. But I do, so that's good enough for me.

 

Because they deserve better than to have a porn addict as a partner and... seeing as the majority of men at least in the developed world use porn, its hard to find a man that is actually worth putting effort towards.