Virgins - do you think it's better to wait for that special someone or just to get it out of the way

I don't understand when you mean Someone. I believe if you fall in love with someone who appreciates you for you, than that is better than just fucking some random person. Dealing with PMO is priority, but staying single longer is worse than finding someone; considering OP is 33, and the guy with autism wants to know how to talk to woman but struggles. If both don't start conversing, and finding someone, it not only effects their mental health but at the same time leads them no where they want to be.

 

No. At your age, keep ir for yourself. Nobody is entitled to know. Get the girl home. Kiss her. Touch her body. Than get to erotogenic zones, remive her clothing, eat her out and move her on her knees and just stick it there from behind, grab her and go

 

Than re read and think

 

Being a virgin doesn't affect the way you see women at all.

It just a matter of having experience in bed. If the girl is virgin, you need to be a real gentleman in the first times, making a path for the next times. And if you are virgin, of course you will also struggle at the first times. Everyone's first time will be awkward.

But this doesn't matter at all in the daily basis with a woman. In the relationship itself.

You can meet a woman tomorrow and getting to know her. What she likes. What she doesn't. Make her happy. All of this being a virgin. Sex will naturally come.

I really don't get the fact that one being a virgin to affect the way they see a woman in a relationship then after first time, it's all said and done about the way you see them...

 

To be honest, my last relationship had sex a lot. Good sex. Lots of fun in this regard. But the relationship itself was not that good.

 

if i could go back, i'd rather be a virgin than someone who's had sex. i rushed into it n i regret it for life. dont do it just for the sake of it. virgin, not virgin-- no one has to know.
if ur friends laugh at u for being a virgin, they're not ur friends.
there really is a lot more to life than sex. wish i knew this earlier.

 

Some things are not meant to be experienced. U can have that experience with a loved one. Not rush into it.

Many things in life are not meant to be experienced imo:
Drugs
Drinking
Dancing at parties
Sleeping with prostitute
Mountain climbing
Gambling
Truck driving

N I'm ok with it now. I don't want to do stuff just for the sake of it. We live only once n it's precious.

 

It's ok pal. Sex is overrated. I had a one night stand n I regretted it. It was horrible. Won't go into details. But I can never be proud of what I did. Was in therapy after that as it just disturbed me so much.

It's really ok pal. Ill get my motorbike license at 31 next year in jan. So it's ok..

 

How old are you now...
I suggest focus on your job, studies... I understand in my 20s I was crazy n desperate for sex. Was ashamed of being a virgin n would get jealous when I saw others kiss their partners. I guess it's normal. But I wish I had stayed like that rather than acting on desperation.

 

Its really ok. Imo emotional bonding is more important than sex with a partner.

Do u have a job? Maybe you could put up a dating profile but not with sole intention of sex. Jmo..

 

Most pathetic post EVER

 

I think if thats the case get a hooker. Because u will not be able to score a normal girl if u like this.