Virgins - do you think it's better to wait for that special someone or just to get it out of the way

If I could relive my life again I would never do one night stands ideally I'd wait till I found the one i

 

What I meant was my failed relationships due to jumping into bed to soon making babies etc

 

I've been single for 3yrs now I didn't realise the top way to meet someone is online I tried it once but like you said few messages then ghosted I've not had sex in 3 yes that's why I'm here I realised I'd rather have porn than a real woman even when I was married porn was priority

 

I really feel that being a virgin is like a weight on top of you and then after you lose it you realize that sex is not that big of a deal. And you stop thinking about it.
It is what I have heard, I am also a virgin

 

So many ways to look at it I can imagine being a virgin has its issues for sure I can only speak from my experiences I lost my virginity at 14 looking back way too young very dissapointing experience for sure

 

I feel that regret as well.
For me no sex again until I eventually marry my special lady.

 

Sex in my opinnion isn't special, just something about to have kids.
I was virgin for 22,5 years, this is the way I feel.

 

i don't regrets that come from being virgin, i may regret not having played more with girls when i was 16... i had feelings for a girl, but i was totally clueless, my "implementing the plan" part of the brain barely turned on by girls...

i really want to make love with my lover if we find each other someday... i don't feel rushed. what is not comfortable is the idea that she will probably have made love to someone else, and that disgusts me...

 

Depends on your age. If u are 33... get the hell over with it. You already should have 10yo kid and not wait for some ideal.. LOL.

If u are 15... than wait

 

Well, as regards to the bloke who is 33, i'd tell him he should understand what the ques woman send towards a guy they find attractive. Once you understand those basic ques, of the when to approach, and when to not (mostly because she is not interest; and you can avoid the feeling of being rejected) you will definitely become more confident on your ability to ask someone you find attractive out. A lot of it is also not being arrogant, or naive about how a woman feels and wants. It's not rocket science, but woman take in environments and experiences vastly differently than us men do. And blatantly we have no idea, to often do we think of ourselves, get stuck in that ego mindset. But when you realize that everyone who lives has lived a completely different experience than you it kind of humbles you to the reality that it's wiser, and more just to understand others in an emotion, and bonding way then feel the need to have that biological urge be fulfilled. and don't worry I have felt the same way to, even though I may be 13 years younger than you, we all are human, and know what it feel like to live through pain, sorrow, guilt, depression, joy, love. SO, go out there and just start talking to people, be yourself.

 

Being autistic definitely brings with it a whole new aspect of difficulties with social cues for sure. But don't let that set you back, you'll meet someone.

 

Just be careful. Meeting SOMEONE can be much worse than being single. Its not some endgoal where it all will be good and pink.

Still. U CANT stay a virgin because it completely hinders your self consciousness in relationship towards woman. U should deal with this issue. Than u can be happily single afterwards. Its important difference!

 

I don't get that