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Stuck compulsively.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Mr. Unhappy, Feb 11, 2024.

  1. Mr. Unhappy

    Mr. Unhappy Fapstronaut

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    I hate to say this but I've been resetting all week, but I haven't wasted a drop of juice for that matter.. I am stuck with compulsively masturbation. I don't know how to actual beat this.. It's like when I just get home I'm exhausted I do the same routine. Take health pills, sleep pills. Then I hit the bed after I give my animals attention...

    It's like the chaser effect goes in to play right after compulsive behavior for me. I really hate it, it's like it takes complete control of me and I've started listening to hypnosis sessions from YT on PMO addiction and I am not seeing much benefits from them...

    Can somebody please give me some ideas or help on how to beat this? Just anything is much appreciated..
     
  2. Yin&Yang-Yūki

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  3. Not sure what this means.
    Also, your struggle sounds similar to mine. Not sure if I have the answer, even after 10+ years of trying to quit masturbating (which became compulsive - as in urges so strong, so overwhelming, I had to masturbate right then and there, even if I wasn't in a safe or appropriate place to do so).
    One thing that's helping me now is trying to limit my caffeine and sugar intake. All too often, I use too much of one or both, then feel extremely anxious, and then feel driven to masturbate - to "release" some of that nervous energy.
    Hope that helps!
     
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  4. Be Inspired

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    I had to have a really good reason to stop and a sincere and an overwhelming desire to stop. And I needed God's help. Now I can share with others that God allowed me to not resort to PMO for 153 days in a row one day at a time. I was a daily M user since age 10 and heavy P user since age 17.
     
  5. onceaking

    onceaking Fapstronaut

    Maybe read a book before you go to sleep.
     
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  6. Be Inspired

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    1. Do you use social media?

    2. Do you entertain sexual fantasy / sexual thoughts during the day?
     
  7. Wave tamer

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    I found citalopram to be a massive game changer! But you need to block adult content sites and have an accountability partner
     
  8. Wave tamer

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    Yea I get that. Seeking the opioid effects when you orgasm.
     
  9. Mr. Unhappy

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    Thanks!

    I drink a cup of coffee before work and just have a monster energy during to keep myself up. Other wise I cut caffeine off and drink allot of water after noon.. Midnight for me I know if I do anything after my sleep will be ruined completely.

    Cutting caffeine out had been really hard and I’m sure having a cup every morning is not good especially for our hydration. I read that having at least two bottles of water worth is what you should be doing. I probably should start incorporating this more.
     
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  10. Mr. Unhappy

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    I’m Super Religious and believe in ghosts since I’ve had an experience as a teen. God helped me majorly when I was in class during high school to be my best version, that’s just all I wanted and I took time on prayer repeatedly. To this day I still pray when I get in the shower and when I get home…

    I’m just not sure why i’m not as spiritual or will powered like I was back then… I do pray for it and the ability to drive off all urges and Lustful thoughts but they just come back..
     
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  11. Be Inspired

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    I have been told that Faith without Works is dead
     

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