Starting over

Recovering your relationship is a long, difficult road. The first step is getting yourself clean of PM'ing. The relationship may or may not be restore'able -- but focus first on YOU.

How is your personal recovery from P and M coming along?
What tangible steps are you taking?

 

I have some resources in my signature.. If you are on a phone, turn sideways to see... If you have any questions please feel free to ask
Good luck on your journey and welcome to the forum

 

I never understand when people say this. A good majority of the time, family or relationships are the catalysts that sets the addict onto the road to recovery. When the addict realizes what they have to lose, or have already lost, this is often what sets the recovery wheels into motion. The idea that a PA starts recovery only for their relationship or only for themselves does not have to be linear. Most of the time when an addict does it for one, they do it for the other simultaneously. They do not have to be exclusive.