Please [still enslaved to this loneliness]

What is making you feel like this?

Hope you feel better soon.

 

I have had friendships like that over the internet, where the other person has either vanished or declared they no longer wish to continue such a friendship etc.

I've been told once that being their internet friend was some sort of hidden secret. They had a new girlfriend staying over who might use their computer and they didn't want me contacting them just in case she found out. It made me feel like I was somehow someone to be ashamed of.

I think some people forget that just because it's the internet, there might still be an actual real human there.

I know how you must be feeling. It was a real friendship and now it's gone. The internet was incidental as far as your emotions are concerned.

 

Sorry, man. Here for you!

 

Hey man. I'm feelin lonely myself tbh.. bt I ll sure as hell get over it!
My gf has been givin me a rough tym abt sumtin personal. Can't be too sure if its d end of d relationship.. vry unclear..
But!
Itz all abt dat wavelength in relationships, ya?
A lot of tyms, people r good fr each oder bt it jst doesn't work out becoz of many things...
That dude kind of is an asshole. Y pursue such a friendship if he dint want it in d first place???? Big mistake on his part to hurt you lyk dat!
Fallouts ain't bad tho.
You gotta learn frm that kinda stuff and move on...
Frm what I know, most online frndships don't work out in lyf.. Real unfortunate bt vry common...
As sumone said here- internet was incidental.
Yeah probably?
U might find it easier to forgiv him, be grateful while it lasted nd turn your head forward, move on..
I don't think he hates ya or nytin.
Just life brother... Catches up to every1

U ll always hav sumone around. I hv had my share of breakups bt I always find sumone better.
Fapstronauts r here for ya!
Cheers pal..

 

We should not blame our parents, our surrounding, our past.
Even if the facts are true: Blaming does not change anything. It's only a cheap try to throw off responsibilty.
We are adults, we can decide on our own.

 

What exactly r u tryin to say? Dat he just stops suffering frm a frndship loss? Can he not jst let it out wateva is botherin him???

 

Please read again. Properly.
And then write again. Properly.

 

Thanks, clever owl !? What makes you so upset, please ?

 

He writes deep slang, so english seems to be his 1st language.

But in my post, I was writing about "not blaming others", and he is writing about friendship loss. Where is the connection? It sounds to me like he didn't read my post at all.

 

@IGY @Spartan17 I was referecing to a post from @IGY at Nov 2015 (!), not the recent one.

To emphasize my statement: I think we all experienced loss of love and even hurt in our childhood.
That's why we became addicts. But if we want to stop the downward loop, then we need to stop blaming.

The past is over, now we are adults, now we look forward, now we take responsibility for our own, now we decide.

And when we do, then the feeling of depression and loneliness stops. Because we get in charge of our own life again.