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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Hockeypuck69, Jun 25, 2022.

  1. Hockeypuck69

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    When I was a teen I was addicted to masturbating and I stopped getting morning wood at 16. My penis shrunk 1.5 inch. I’m now 21 and extremely depressed. Is there anything I can do to reverse this over this long period of time. It’s killing me im so disappointed in myself. I wish I knew earlier that I had ED but I was only a kid. PIED for 5 years :(
     
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  2. My guy. Work out your dick. Do NoFap. It's that simple.
     
  3. Wait, guys I am so curious. Does masturbation reduce penis size? Specifically, does overmasturbation as a young child reduce penis size? I have been masturbating since I was 7, and I feel it may have reduced my penis size. Understand, that I have been addicted to masturbation since 7, its almost not my choice man... But then I think to myself, that my size is around average so maybe it is bogus that it shrunk my penis size and I am just freaking out over nothing. Although, I think my flacid size can sometimes tiny. It varies, sometimes its normal/big sometimes its like shriveled, why does that happen? I read somewhere that overmasturbation wont affect ur erect but it will affect ur flacid size. Does anyone have hardcore info on this? I am also worried, because I have huge hands, huge feet, thick bones, and muscular physique. Yet my penis is basically average, maybe I ruined it im not sure. Can someone inform me about these things?
     
  4. Things that can make your dick smaller:
    lack of erections for a long time
    jacking off way to much (Like way, way too much)
    NoFap stops both, as long as you're still getting erections regularly.

    Things that can make your dick bigger:
    stretching it
    inflating it past your normal erection level
    Go to thunders.place on the internet and do the "newbie routine".

    Stop freaking out and start actually doing something about it. You can gain like 2in length and 1in girth in a few years of consistent smart training.
     
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  5. Peiskos

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    There isn't permanent shrinkage, when I was at the height of my porn addiction my dick when flaccid was just shrivelled up and just generally abused looking in appearance. Now that I've refrained from PMO and have been on my rebooting journey my dick is much larger when flaccid, it hangs lower, it looks healthier and more functional because it is.

    Is there anything you can do to reverse this? Yes.

    - Immediately stop watching porn, go hard mode.
    - Don't touch it during the day except for peeing and bathing.
    - Don't test to see if you can get erections at any point.
    - Don't peek at photo's videos.
    - Find a hobby, something else to fill the time you'd usually watch porn.

    Climb out of the hole that you're in and begin to rebuild your mindset, know that you don't need porn and that it is only damaging you physically and emotionally with PIED, rebuild yourself as a person and know that if you don't make these steps to change, you will only regret it even more as the years go by. PMO only leads to a future of darkness, much like any other drug.
     
  6. What you are saying sounds extreme and unmotivational. Even if someone is below avg they should just own and not train for years to make it bigger. Sounds retarded and not even possible I have to be 100 percent real. I agree with the first part of your post, NOFAP is healthy and it will prevent things like over masturbation and not getting boners. But the second part of your post is silly my friend. I think the only reason ppl have obsession with size is due to porn, and when they stop watching it they will stop caring. My annoyance isnt with being below avg or whatever, it is just with if I have harmed myself by overmasturbation. At this point, whether I am above or below avg I couldnt care less. (However, I doubt I am below avg, nothing on my body is sized below avg). Again my concern is just if I have physically lessened myself bc of it. Without a doubt I have mentally harmed myself.
     
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  7. cleiders

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    I don't think the starting age will affect the size or your penis. I have friends that started young and are quite good sized after development.
     
  8. Starchild5x

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    I feel so sad for all you young guys with porn addiction,it ruins your sexual health,distorts your sexual preferences and completely destroys relationships,my partner is 44 & started watching porn about 7 yrs ago,we've been together 20yrs & before this he always had good erection's & we had sex often,now he hardly comes near me & can't stay hard when he does its heartbreaking,it's been 2yrs & he still tries to find ways of doing it without my knowing & it makes me think: If it's this hard for a man who had years of knowing what real loving sex felt like to rewire his brain back to not having P.I.E.D. & enjoying sex with partner then it must be awful for your generation who's brains were still developing when your addiction started,I really wish you all the luck in your recovery & hope you can someday be a becon of hope for all the many others like you
     
  9. Only 7 years ago? That’s a bit surprising, but also really sad to hear how destructive it’s been.
    I’m 47 and masturbated excessively starting as a teenager (to magazines, then to VHS tapes and DVDs … internet came later.

    To the guys on here, YES - I do believe that masturbating (especially so much) shrunk my penis. I am 6 feet tall, but my penis is only 4 1/2 inches when fully erect.

    If you’re bigger than I am, quit while you’re ahead. ;)
     
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  10. Yes this porn stuff is crazy. First time I MOed was 7 :((. First time I PMOed was idk, maybe 11. So I have been stuck for a very long time. And when I sat there and contemplated it sometimes i cried and felt lots of emotional pain. BUt what can you do? I acc blame society and the filthy culture of society and the filthy women that walk around half naked all the time. or how tights are a staple clothing now like every girl wears tights idk how else that is supposed to effect young raging boy hormones. Our society is just messed up and women have no modesty anymore!!! U cant go anywhere without seeing tits hanging, madeup faces and hair, bootys and cameltoes in tight clothing, cute wastes and tummys, beautified with jewlery etc. Girls just have no sham. Its also kind of annpying cuz I think sometimes, like when a female is taken, why does she beautfiy herself like that for other strangeer men who are not here partner. Likes its acc humiliating. I feel some women work to beutify themselves for random strangers who dont care about them more than they do for their own partners! Acc, women are just flat out disrespectful. Basicallly, im trying to say there are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too many triggers nowadays and I am 19 year old guy with crazy hormones sometimes I feel like I just want to make out with every girl on the planet like my brain cannot handle all these triggers AHHHHHH!.
     
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  11. Wave tamer

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    I also struggle with this worry that too much masterbation shrunk my penis especially in its flaccid state. The thing is when I’d had sex even if it was paid for most of the time. My jewels would then hang/ be more relaxed and larger in a flaccid state. Is it the testosterone you produce being around the opposite sex which causes this. Or is it because mentally you feel guilty and ashamed to do it solo but relaxed when youve actually had sex? Surely your penis doesn’t know the difference between a woman touching you downstairs or yourself! I mean if it can be fooled by 2d sexual partners on your computer to one’s in real life it shouldn’t really know if it’s you touching it or Cheryl from Tranquility:) I do notice a big difference in flaccid hang if I don’t cum for 2-3 weeks but then you’ve got a big loaded bulge with only a few pumps in it!
     
  12. Wave tamer

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    I think/well I certainly do: pick fault with myself and get cross with myself for messing things up. Maybe it’s an inner critic thing from just not feeling good enough whether that’s from strict parenting, adhd frustration or comparison to others? It’s funny you mention the hands as I’m a good build with big feet, 7+inch but have small hands. It didn’t bother me till a few people made a comment and as I have penis anxiety (when I’m also shrivelled.) it fed into the whole big hands big D thing! I new someone years ago who had 9.5” but was pissed off he had brown eyes and wished he had blue ones like mine? Humans hey never satisfied! Some men are growers some are showers. Too much masterbation for me will make it more shrivelled by I bet for some men will make them more engorged!
     
  13. Starchild5x

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    7 yrs ago for Internet porn,not masturbation lol he's a guy iam assuming he's always done that.but years ago it was magazines VHS etc,i don't have an issue with masturbation,when he was "away' in the early parts of our relationship he would openly admit to readers wives & I ws ok with it because i wasn't there.we didn't have smartphones back then or computers.I personally think it's online porn is the problem.
     
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  14. Starchild5x

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    I understand,I don't think starting masturbation young is such a problem because we all do these things growing up but when I was younger you didn't have access to all these full on hard-core porn videos & live cams etc like there is now,so you did it but didn't feel great about it,you had normal urges to be with somone sexually,then you meet partners & feel the love part,with Internet porn it fucks up what you think & feel about sex,like your thoughts on women,don't get me wrong I totally get it because since I found out about my partners porn use I can't look at all these girls & women with shorts up there arse crack without getting annoyed & upset,I hate them all! But I didn't feel like that before so i know this experience as messed up my thinking,I do think girls could be more modest but I also think your mind needs healing.I cried reading this man it's so bad that this highly sexual society has fucked alot of people up,have you noticed all the adverts & TV programmes are like soft porn,like the one we're they show you there bits before there face! Omg thats like me going on a date n the guy says we'll I wana see your fanny first then ill think about it wtf has happened to the world
     
  15. You seem like a genuine person and I respect you for that, I cry thinking about this stuff too sometimes. but I cant lie to you, I am angry with society. And as we both mentioned, our societies are messed up ok, very messed up. I mean I can tell u many stories about when I was out for delivery, and I see girls nipples clearly through their tops, they def knew it was sticking out. I saw this one women wearing a see through white tight tanktop, her nipple was apparent and she was with her partner, i mean what a pathetic man her partner is. No one said a thing to that women with her nipples out. I mean cmon, its absurd!!! Am I wrong for calling that lady shameless whre? No way I am wrong, I am right! Where is the honour of a woman??? Where is the honor of a man?? The honor of a man is in taking care of his lady and preserving her, and not letting her walk around naked so all other guys can fantasize about her or potentially get at her and cheat. And the honour of a woman is in her modesty, and keeping to herself and taking care of her house and partner. Not in walking around like a shameless whre and needing validation!!! CMON! Like I told u, I masturbated at 7 because I was in school with half naked teachers and classmates, and then when I go on any device I am bombarded with ill dressed women, then same thing when I go to grocery store. Especailly those TIGHTS that 100 percent of women wear these days. CMON!!! Am I wrong???! Im at 7, bombarded with all this, having boners all day, what do you expect to happen next!? I remember this one canadian cop, went out and spoke the truth: he said one of the reaosns why there are so many sex crimes is because of the way women dress!!! How is he wrong?! How is he rude!? Do you know what women did next? Just purposely walked around naked!! What is wrong with those moronic women! Is this how we will raise our daughters??? To twerk on tik tok and pass her self around and show off her body at EVERY opportunity?? Im not sorry if this sounds harsh, eveeryone knows it is the truth and nothing but the truth!
     
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