2 things: I generally would say when it comes to meeting a woman in real life I'm above average in skill Online? I get angry and my face starts to flush. A story: I start talking to a cute red head off a dating app. We talk about our jobs, where were from the usual. SHE suggests we continue the discussion somewhere else. So I add her to snap chat. This is literally what happens. She snaps me a selfie that says "hi match friend" I snap back saying "oh hi" she goes "what are you up to" (selfie) I sent her a selfie back saying "getting change soon. Getting ready to go out. Ugh why is it so cold" She never even opened that fucking snap. When I clicked send, I had already been deleted. Am I wrong for being totally frustrated by this?
No getting frustrated is understandable. However does it solve the problem? I say you cut your losses and move on from this girl. Either something weird happened or she ditched you. You got this bro, keep going! -TheBigBadWolf
No - obviously doesn't help me to get frustrated it's just one of those... How do you let yourself not be frustrated
I feel you. Online dating is very frustrating and it's taken me years to get this through my thick skull, but I finally gave it up. Until you meet a girl in person, it's not reality. It's virtual! And in the online world, ugly girls can reject guys all day long, and good looking guys get rejected by girls that they'd never even consider in real life. And, I'm convinced that the majority of women (and men) online are not well represented by their profiles and many of them aren't even seriously interested in meeting anyone. It's just a distraction!! Quick fix dopamine hits for both men and women, not much different than porn really. My best advice would be to close that dating app and get out there and meet women in real life.
I will admit that I have met a few amazing women online, but I also put a ridiculous amount of time and energy into it. In my experience as a male with online dating there is a 99% failure rate. 90% of the women either don't respond or stop responding for no apparent reason Of the maybe 10% that do agree to meet, 9 out of 10 either no-show, turn out to be nothing like their profile or I can just see that they clearly aren't a match within seconds or minutes. What a waste of time.
Well, mr. Ten percent you hit the nail on the fucking head. I met a gf of a year and a half online once - ended badly lol. I met a girl, who... When speaking to her I thought we would be a perfect match I was so happy I found her. The conversations we had, the interests we shared... When I met her, I wanted to rip her face off she was so fucking annoying. I hated everything about her. I occasionally did find some good pussy though lolol Online is the worst, RL is the tops.
