Involuntary Orgasm

Well, I suppose thisncouldnimcludrve wet dreams, but beyond that has anyone else struggled or had experiences with involuntary orgasms

Spoiler: Trigger Warning

AKA cumming in your pants

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I’ve had my share - while taking exams, during sports competitions, on exercise bikes, while doing curl ups, at work doing strenuous tasks … That’s just to name a few.

And many of the above happened more than once. Similar to my struggles with PE, it seems that once something crosses that threshold from feeling like I might O to actually ejaculating, it’s much more likely to happen again. Perhaps driven by heightened anxiety that it might happen again.

I’m curious how others deal with this or what experiences you’ve had. Especially as I am trying to only O from sex (no masturbation) and recently had an O at night while half awake without touching, I’m worried that I’ll now be more likely to “pop my top” with involuntary orgasms and/or get caught in another cycle of premature ejaculation.

 

Sometimes, this is what caused it . . . but sometimes not. I used to struggle a lot trying to find the right underwear to not trigger an ejaculation - especially if I start to get an erection and the friction of my growing erection against the fabric is just too much. But, I think more often over the past few years of NoFap, it's been happening without that friction. The last time, just a few days ago, it was an arousing thought that triggered it, and just the other day it almost happened from seeing a sex scene in a movie.

Wow. I'm sorry to hear that.
That's pretty much the opposite of my problem

Is that a thing?? What kind of drugs or injections induce orgasm?

Always good to look on the bright side. These involuntary orgasms can be extremely humiliating.

 

Most of the time, it's not too bad. Yes, there's a wet spot in my pants, but nobody notices? Often times I will untuck a shirt, or maybe grab a book or a book bag to cover it, sometimes (at work especially) I have "spilled" a drink or maybe some water on myself . . . by the time that has dried, maybe the wet spot isn't so obvious. I have sometimes worried that someone could smell it, but so far I have never been called out on it.

That is most of the time . . . a few times, someone saw it happen, and "pretended" not to notice. Once I was kicked out of an appointment because of it - so humiliating, especially as I had to reschedule and imagined that everyone there must have know what happened!

And one time at work it happened while I was doing some vigorous scrubbing. I fought it as long as I could, but eventually it was too much. I looked down at my crotch to see how bad the wet spot was and just then saw a drop of semen drip down to the floor - it had soaked right through my pants enough to drip . . . and then I looked up and saw a red headed female coworker walk by looking at me!

Did she see that? I don't know. Kind of doubt it. There are some really mean girls at work and I figure I'd never hear the end of it if word got out.

What do I do to deal with it? No real solution. In high school I used to wear two pairs of underwear, one of them being thick flannel boxers. I have thought about using panty liners, or maybe "tucking" so that any mess would be between my legs instead of up by my zipper. Luckily these events have been relatively infrequent. Every time something happens, I panic that it will start happening all the time (like it did in high school) but it seems to come in waves.

 

Wow! It’s like your singing my song. I’ve had all the same experiences, and yes sometimes it seems to be my partly fault for the build up, but other times it’s like I’ve done nothing wrong. It might be after a month of no O, or just a day or two. And much of the time I’m flaccid when it happens.
I wonder the same thing - why can’t I just have normal wet dreams, or retrograde emissions (though I do have those sometimes)??
That would be SO much better than creaming my pants when the physical therapist has me use an exercise bike to warm up!

Curious - do you have PE as well?