I gave up on semen retention

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Deleted Account, May 28, 2019.

  1. I just cant do it. Longest i went was around 2 weeks then I came during my sleep.

    I tried everything and no matter what i did, i always get wet dreams.

    Its been 8 months and i still get a wet dream at least once per week. And im always jerking off to a naked girl in the dream.

    Porn still pops up in my mind a lot, i cant escape this stuff. The fact that im doomed to be a virgin makes this shit tough to truly beat.

    And lately i wake up just a second before ejaculating so i have to experince cumming awake in order to make the chase effect stronger.

    I cant escape this shit, It drives me nuts. My pwn body is my enemy. Some days i just want to kill myself. I want to get laid but cant, and i get wet a dream which i dont want. its so agonizing.
     
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  2. plenty of actually. most of the time im in a flatline tbh.
     
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  3. MichyBoy13

    MichyBoy13 Fapstronaut

    Hey man, getting off an addiction is hard and I feel for you. Just keep fighting because your a fighter, pray just pray for god and put your trust in him. Because he knows the Beginning to the end, If you give everything to god and willing to let go right now. He`ll give you something better and greater. Hes doing this for his own purpose, hes doing this for his plan for you to have a Better and greater life. Dont ever give up. Ill be Praying brother.
     
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  4. ledener

    ledener Fapstronaut

    Never surrender and don't put guilty in yourself if you have wet dreams cuz it's not your intention
     
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  5. but wet dreams are unatural
     
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  6. Hros

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    Actually, they are. What's unnatural is having them a lot. But once a month or so is what a normal person would have.
     
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  7. i get them evey week unfortuntely. its a side effect of porn addiction and it wont go away because my body knows it cant get laid
     
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  8. Hros

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    Oh please, that's not the reason. I also get them once a week on average, and until not too long ago, it was almost daily (!). That's progress. I'm sure, therefore, that eventually it'll get to a natural state of once a month.
    Besides that, do you think a normal person that isn't addicted to PMO and isn't in a relationship just has wet dreams every night? Or once a week? No.
     
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  9. before PMO wet dreama were very iregular tbh

    idk man, i get erotic dreams almost every night but i only cum once a week . whether i supress these thoughts or not it doesnt matter, they always come in my sleep
     
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  10. Hros

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    Well, that's progress right there. Would you rather getting a wet dream every night?
    What you think about during the day is what you'll dream about at night, this is true for most dreams. Therefore, if you really work hard at controlling your thoughts, while at the same time focusing your mind and energy on doing positive things, your mind will gradually become cleaner and you'll gradually have less wet dreams.
     
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  11. i didnt get such dreams in the beggining of my streak

    this didn't work either
     
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  12. ledener

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    I think we have (me and you) sexualized minds yet, but when I had a wet dream I didn't blamed myself.
    And I remember that in the night of the dream I've passed the day thinking too much in girls.
    Since that day, I controled my mind and every time erotic thinkings come I dismiss them.

    I recommend you to make strength exercises and meditation
    In the meditation you should mentalize your energy concentred in the umbilical region expanding above. It's sure it will work.
    The exercise is just for spending some Testosterone from your blood
     
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  13. i dont think about sex and still get wet dreams. meditation didnt work
     
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  14. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    Um are you mad that your conscious mind feels helpless versus your unconscious mind ??

    Have you ever tried to raise a child before ? Lol. They are the same. What you tell them to do they don’t always listen.

    You are suffering from impatience more than wet dreams; porn is the reason you are so impatient. You are used or at least hoping for immediate progress. That’s unreaslitic, your age your diet your sleep habits your exercise your general brain activity can all influence your sleep cycle and unconscious. You would be best to do some strenuous work. Worrying about sex sounds like you have a lot of free time. I say that from experience lol.
     
  15. ledener

    ledener Fapstronaut

    How did you get to 254 days???
     
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  16. Jonny1992

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    Well if it’s during your sleep, then everything is fine. It was not you manually, your own body automatically.

    So you are ob the right track. Usually your body reabsorbs sperm that is older then three weeks. So you don‘t need to ejacuate. But if your body produces more than it can reabsorb, your body will send them out, called pollution.

    You are not bad. Just other type of body.
     
  17. Jonny1992

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    Be patient with yourself. That you are searching for help speaks for you.

    You want to quit it, but with problems.
    Keep going, you will find the solution.
     
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  18. defective type of body. and you are right, it does overproduce semen. the only time it doesnt is when im sick.
     
  19. i know what the solution is sadly
     
  20. Jonny1992

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    You are not defective. Then you would be the only one who is suffering from it ;)
     

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