Has anyone tried chastity cages to prevent nocturnal emissions/wet dreams at night?

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  1. wetnightmare

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    Hi there. I am thinking about to buy chastity cages for preventing nocturnal emissions and wet dreams at sleeping. It drains my energy and motivation also heavily affects my bodybuilding recovery. Has anyone experience with chastity cages?
     
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  2. Sense

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    You'll just be putting all the focus onto your dick, while feeding into the fetish that triggered this idea...

    Give it all up for a while and it'll start to seem like a crazy idea.
     
  3. wetnightmare

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    Fetish? It seems like a reasonable device for semen retention. Also, all of nofap and semen retention movement are a weird idea, aren't they?
     
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  4. this will go wrong somehow
     
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  5. Penis does not have to be erect to have a wet dream. In fact most wet dreams for most people are during flaccid/semi flaccid state. So this would not work. If anything presence of chastity cage there would stimulate your genitals during sleep increasing possibility of wet dream. You would get the opposite effect.
     
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  6. Crossbow

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    I use one -- something called a "Mancage" because it was the least expensive one I could find. I use it not for wet dreams, just wear it during the day and especially when I need to study, to resist MO temptation. It has become kind of crutch and I am trying to phase off it. I can spend more time concentrating on my study without distraction if I wear it, but not recommending getting dependent on it. It is a crutch. Sometimes I need a crutch. I am working to be better and stronger.
     
  7. It surely doesn't work. Indeed, this cage is a king of stimulation, not a prevention.
     
  8. EmmyB

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    I don't know about cages but I do know you can get a ring that goes around it. There are sharp teeth on the inside and if you get an erection in your sleep they cause pain and you wake long before an emission can occur. They're used for monks, some priests, people like that. You could probably buy them online.
     
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  9. BravelyKegger

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    the reason you have wet dreams at night is to get your penis hard so it stays hard and healthy, if you put on a cock cage i guarantee your penis will shrink a few inches.
     
  10. ultrafabber

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    This would be a VERY bad idea because during the night you get erections so that the penis tissue stays healthy.

    Being in a cage will completely mess up your penis, DO NOT DO IT.
     
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  11. +TenPercent

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    I use one on occasion and doubt that I would have made it this far (72 days and counting) without it. Like @Crossbow wrote, it can be a crutch so I try to minimise how often I wear it, but I also find that it helps me to stay focused on my goals. :cool:

    The most common one that you will likely find online is called "Kalli's Teeth". I own one, but have not tried to wear it at night because I don't really struggle with wet dreams. I imagine that it would do the trick pretty well, but I also think it would just fall off when you are flaccid . . . it's very heavy.

    For chastity devices I would recommend investing in a stainless steel model (safer than plastic, more hygienic than leather). If you go for a spiked ring, I would suggest trying a leather version to start with (less expensive and lighter = it will probably stay on better than the very weighty "Kalli's Teeth").

    I think that this is a very valid point. Erections happen at night whether we like it or not - it's part of a healthy sleep cycle. Please consider that if you decide to use any type of device - it will disrupt your sleep cycle. Obviously, a wet dream might do the same. Wearing a chastity device at night will be very painful when you get erections and will likely stunt or damage your penis while the spiked ring will just wake you up.
     
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  12. kululuku

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    Well, i've read, wet dreams mostly happens if
    person lays on back. Try force yourself stay on sides.
    (tip: someone used tennisball sewed on back of shirt to avoid
    sleeping on back)

    OR

    I have no idea would this work, but try sleep on sitting.
    Read more about sleeping on sitting from here:
    https://www.theminimalists.com/drew/

    Using some sort of painful devices to avoid erections or wetdreams
    sounds quite horrible :D
     
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  13. Legendz

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    Wet dreams are a natural thing... While on Nofap nearly everyone has them. And you don't lose as much semen as you would if you just ejac manually.. Accept that its a part of it. In my experience the more you fight against pmo and think about it a lot, the more frequently you will have wet dreams. When you don't think about pmo, sex etc as much the less you will have wet dreams. The frequency will go down as your streak goes up.. Can't imagine these devices being a healthy thing..

    And in my experience, wet dreams will only take your energy if you allow it.. Could be that urges come harder because you had a sex dream and a physical release of orgasm.

    I had trouble with it in the beginning of my nofap journey but as i progress it doesn't happen that often and when it does i accept it and no energy lost..

    I think these devices are taking it to far.. just relax brother..
     
  14. Tiredofporn75

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    A few years ago I realized I had a problem. I knew I m’d way too much. Did not know that p was the real problem at that point.

    Anyhow to stop m I started wearing a chastity cage. Long story short. Wearing a cage has not harmed me physically in anyway. And I wore them for weeks at a time for a couple of years. Same size now. I don’t recommend them but it’s not going to instantly wreck your penis or anything.

    That being said I don’t think a cage will stop a wet dream at all. Might even make it worse as all you will think about is what is locked up.

    As another aside the cage cut down on my m a lot. But p increased and got way more extreme. I also went from having de to pe. Hoping a reboot can get me back to whatever normal is.

    So yeah. Don’t use one. It’s the mental part that is the real problem with them.
     
  15. C B

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    I don't know about you, but two different times I've had a wet dream on my back before, without using my hands or any sort of pressure.
     
  16. _Damage_

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    Just tell yourself you don't have wetdreams before you sleep and be firm about it
     
  17. Everyone has different views, perceptions and experiences. Its up to you what would work for you since your body is unique, however, the male body is designed to have wet dreams to get rid of old sperm, you can not stop or prevent this regardless how many thoughts or contraptions you use. A chastity will help you stop masturbating but will not stop you from having wet dreams because I use cages from time to time when I know my urges are strong so I use it like a crutch like you said but I had wet dreams with it on. Your penis does not have to be hard to ejaculate, the internal organs contract to expel the semen, obviously you know this. Cages will not mess up or shrink your penis but your penis does need blood to flow in it time from time to keep tissue healthy. That is why penis get hard while we sleep, the body does its thing to regenerate that part of the body. If you still want to try it out, start with CB6000 , steel and silicone are the best and wear it when you alone where you are vulnerable to M, you can wear it at nights but its gonna be hard at first to get use to the first days due to erections and you might wake up during the middle of the night due to your dick trying to get hard. You got to give your penis a break from the cage so it can receive blood flow time from time and keep it clean. Cages do not increase Porn watch its all in the head and you control that by self discipline. If you want to use a cage so you can see more porn you are defeating the purpose of decreasing everything all together. Again, not a professional here do your research and its your body and you should know what would works for you. I am positive that cages are a great perfect tool to stop M and a lot guys that want to hit those 90 or more longer days of NoFap should try it out it would def work but you have to have self discipline, again, all about perception. A lot of dudes don't favor it due to they are scared of it fucking up their dicks, fear of the unknown, they saw a dude wearing it in some fetish porn like sissy, cuckold, slave, etc and believe that cages are just for those purposes and they fear of becoming a sissy or whatever, lmao, or see it too painful for some reason and yes some guys use it as a fetish but doesn't mean you have a fetish and lets say you do, who cares? its doing its function of stopping you from masturbating. Sometimes you have to weigh your so call risks, risk of masturbating to then reset again or locking up your dick for a while so you can't jack off and ejaculate thus wasting your semen and achieving your goal. Do what you can to retain your semen but stopping or prevent W.D is a myth. Some guys genetics are just programmed to have them less than others but it will eventually happen. Guys keep forgetting we are all genetically different. Some guys produce more semen by spoon fulls than others ( hyperspermia ) others produce less than a teaspoon all of this influences WD.
     
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  18. Ronila

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    Most wet dreams happen during REM sleep during which men almost always have an erection. Please do research on your facts.
     
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  19. Ronila

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    Stimulation for nocturnal emissions comes from the brain, during rem sleep brain models the environment and experiences and you see them as dreams, to the brain these experiences are realistic and stimulation simulated in there is no different from real.
    Using cages at nigh can cause major problems due to many erections you naturally get every night.

    Clinical research in to orgasms, and it is extensive, completely contradicts your statements - orgasms improve mood, motivation and energy levels. What factual foundation you use for thinking otherwise?
     
  20. on my first 30 days of nofap i got around 4 wet dreams .
    after that i have started pillow talk just before sleep to wake me up in case of NE. and it worked like a charm
    this month i have had dreams 2 times but no NE , cause i was awoken just before the emission.
    its just like a belief system.
     

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