Handjob from partner

Nope. Masturbation is having sex with yourself. A handjob is a sex act performed with a partner.

You are the only one who can decide if getting a handjob is acceptable.

I think most here would see a handjob, especially with one’s wife or girlfriend, to be not just acceptable, but a big step over PMO.

Just my opinion, but good work on sharing that intimate act with your partner and not jerking yourself off!