Foot Fetish Addict -NEED HELP

yes it did , I used to watch lot of porn and other stuffs where girls give you instruction of edging and other stuff by showing there legs and feet , but since I started NoFap it seems a thing of past , but urges are still there not frequent they subside as day passes and your brain will wire .[/QUOTE]
You are right bro...i should also be doing NoFap hardcore

 

Do you get attracted by boobs and all?

 

I just relapsed again and again and again..
It's so difficult with hot feet everywhere...BUT AM GONNA FIGHT THIS FETISH..
Its hardcore mode 2019

 

I just saw this post on Reddit
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Hi everybody, let me start by giving some background on myself. I’m a 20 year old male who had a foot fetish BEFORE porn that was greatly amplified by the usage of porn. Imortant note this included socks and shoes as well but to make it simple I’ll just say foot. Yes, so you could say that it wasn’t completely porn induced, as I always had a particular interest in feet before I was even watching porn (which is how I found it online) I masturbated to foot fetish related porn for about 4 to 5 years and I never thought it was a problem, I just thought “this is just a side interest, no big deal.”

It started around 9th grade, (fast forward a few years) I finally made it to college freshman year. I never had sex which I began to realize wasn’t ridiculous, but definitely a little peculiar to me since all of my friends had up to this point. I still didn’t think there was any problem until I began to start getting intimate with a (in my opinion) very hot girl. We would make-out, take naps together and such, and finally one night she came to my room very drunk (We live on campus). It was very clear she was horny and wanted to hook up, which I had never done before, so I was definitely feeling nervous. We made out for a few minutes and then she took her shirt off. She proceeded to pull down my shorts and boxers and began to suck my dick. HERES where the problem occurred. I realized after all this time and even as she was sucking my dick that I wasn’t even getting SLIGHTLY hard. That’s where I began to panic, and long story short I did not end up getting laid that night and neither did she .

My ego was definitely feeling low at this point and I realize I needed a change. A 19 (at the time) year old male should NOT have trouble getting it up with a female. (Of course there are cases of erectial dysfunction I’m very sorry brothers ) I never thought my foot fetish interest would make it impossible to get hard with a girl and this is when I started to look online for solutions and found NoFap.

sorry for the long back story btw just wanted you to all know my starting circumstances

So now let me get to the actual NoFap process. The method that worked for me was

1. Completely giving up foot fetish porn. (Yes this includes al videos and images online that relate to the fetish as well so don’t even think about it buster!) this is SOOO important guys. I know how hard it is, trust me, but either be trapped in an endless cycle of misery or give up the videos and images, TRUST ME it’s worth it.
   
   
2. No masturbating at all, just don’t do it if you want to see results. (yes this includes edging) If you are okay living the undesired life you have right now, then by all means continue. But if you want to feel as amazing as I do now, I wouldn’t.
   
   
3. Perhaps the MOST important step of them all in to NOT FANTASIZE about anything foot fetish related at all. NO MATTER WHAT!!!. Now at first I found this to be an impossible task, and I think this is what really delayed my progress. I was actually able to give up the fetish videos, and stored masturbating, but I always had the foot fetish thoughts creep in my mind all throughout the day. A very very very important tip I can give that really did work for me is the following: ANYTIME a fetish thought creeps into your mind repeat in your head over and over and over and over again “fight it fight it fight it fight it fight it fight it”. I know how ridiculous and cliche that sounds, I really do, but I think this method works because it stops your mind from thinking about the fetish and focuses it completely on fighting it. Literally there were times I said “fight it” for over a minute straight, but guess what!? It was enough t stop my mind from thinking about the fetish. I guess what it does is just make me think of something else or get active doing something else because I was actually driving myself crazy by repeatedly saying it. Literat yubhave to get psychotic with yourself and FORCE yourself to not have these thoughts. You WILL succeed. Tell yourself that NOTHING will stop you from beating this disease and addiction. Be confident in yourself and you will amaze yourself at what you can accomplish.
   
   
4. An extremely extremely extremely important tip I can also give is to NOT under ANY circumstances go back to a fetish video to “check” to see if it still interests you or not once you have gotten on a long streak with NoFap. I actually got to day 36 and was feeling absolutely great about myself. That night, falling asleep in bed I said “hey maybe the fetish is gone! Let’s go check”. I ended up relapsing HARD and masturbated to it, and afterwards I felt HORRIBLE and miserable.
   
   
5. Another important thing to realize is when you relapse (cause as much as you fight it’s bound to happen at least once or twice) your counter for days completed does not completely start over. It does interrupt your progress for sure but DO NOT take it as a reason to keep jerking off to it, thinking “Well I already relapsed, might as well enjoy it” NO. NO. NO NO NO NO NO. you put that dirty dick away and redo steps 1 through 4, or honestly I don’t even feel sorry for you, and you shouldn’t feel sorry for yourself. There is a way to free yourself from this disease. It really is possible man, as I’m typing this I can’t help but think how much better my life would have been if I did this much earlier. Its so easy to just give up and say fuck it I’ll just masturbate to it one more time. BREAK THE FUCKING CHAIN.
   
   
6. Another big problem for me was that since a foot shoe sock fetish has triggers EVERYWHERE, I would catch myself staring in public at women’s shoes socks and feet. LET ME REFER YOU to step 4 for this issue. It’s gonna happen, your gonna stare, you will catch yourself doing it, but in your mind you NEED to repeat “fight it fight it fight it” and look away. After enough times doing it, one time when I caught myself staring at a girls feet, I ACTUALLY thought to myself “Why am I even looking there” “I’m not even that attracted to them at all” “it’s just feet” “it’s just her shoes” “I have 2 feet too”. These thoughts will start to come to you and you will realize you are making progress.
   
   
7. One last tip I can give you, that it an all around win win win win win is to go to the gym. “What!? Be active? workout out? Is he serious!?” YES. Dead serious my man. Working out and changing your diet to being healthier goes PERFECTLY with this NoFap regiment. You are literally performing a lifestyle change, so do it right. Going to the gym and lifting weights, doing cardio, abs, leg exercises, is a FANTASTIC way to give yourself time to get your mind away from your fetish and focus on YOU, and feeling healthy and great about being you. Now just remember when you begin to stare at the hot women’s feet repeat “fight it fight it fight it” and LOOK away. I’m telling you, you almost have to get psychotic about repeating this in your head if you really want to succeed. *also just a side not you do not need to go to the gym to beat this fetish, ages 1 through 6 are enough for you to succeed.
   

Now let’s talk about some benefits the main motivating factor for you to succeed.

It was with the consistent usage of the 7 above steps I provided that I was able to overcome this long term foot fetish. I now walk around FREE from this. I know longer get boners or feel that “turn on” sensation in my dick when I see a women’s feet shoes or socks. I feel absolutely amazing and energetic, and my confidence is through the roof. A very very interesting thing I noticed as well is that I am now turned on by a woman’s ass and boobs 100 times more than I was before. I wasn’t even able t get hard when trying to have sex before, but now if I cuddle with a girl or makeout I have no Problem at all getting hard. I actually find myself staring at girls’ asses now and I absolutely love it. I feel like one of the guys now, I can go, hey bro check out that ass, or yo man did you see that hot girl!? It’s basically as if my brain has literally changed. This is so so worth it guys, you can be free. Try my 7 steps, and of course you may have to edit or change them a little bit to match your needs (everybody is different) so what worked for me may not completely work for you).

So here I am today at age 20 cures from this disease and this addiction. I am still a virgin and let me give my fellow virgin brothers some advice for when you too conquer your fetish and are ready for sex

1. PRACTICE PUTING ON CONDOMS. As stupid as it sounds it actually is harder than it seems. It’s awkward and is something you have to try an reactive enough times to get the hang of. I have improved at it but am actually still practicing. Go out to target or Walmart and buy a box of condoms and literally go through the whole box to practice putting them in.
   
   
2. This is an important one, after all these days of not masturbating, when you actually get to having sex you are going to be ready to cum very very fast I would assume (everyone is different though) what you need to do is kegel exercises (look up Jason Julius on YouTube) in order to last longer. This exercise will help you last longer AND will give you stronger boners.
   
   
3. Now for my fellow brothers who have never watched vanilla porn, I’m gonna go ahead and say something controversial. I actually think you should watch some vanilla porn just to see what sex is like, or at least familiarize yourself with the female vagina and anatomy so you aren’t in for a complete shock once it’s time for sex.
   

Success is possible guys please take it from me. I’m gonna go ahead and say a very controversial statement but here we go: I honestly think that a foot fetish does not actually exist, but is something we just make up in our mind. Experts always say “oh it came from a traumatic experience from when you were young” well guess what!? I had one too, and that’s how I got interested in feet in the first place, I actually remember the specific experience I had when I was younger (for me it was touching my feet against an older girls feet and I remember it feeling really good and she was very beautiful and she smiled at me. I was like 3 or 4 at the time I think and it is the earliest childhood memory I have) . I was STILL able to eliminate this fetish. Now I will go ahead and say that I may just be luckier than some guys, and maybe mine wasn’t as strong, but I truely believe no matter how low you feel right now, and no matter how strong your foot fetish is or whatever ever your fetish is, you CAN overcome it. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are stuck with it because with enough determination, YOU can accomplish anything.

I will do my best to answer any questions you guys have, even if I don’t get back to you within a week I will do my best to answer eventually so keep checking periodically, as I am very busy. Good luck with your battle, and your journey. I can’t wait to hear about your success, even if it’s years from now.'

IF HE CAN DO IT, SO CAN I