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Foot Fetish Addict -NEED HELP

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by KenAdams010197, Dec 14, 2018.

  1. KenAdams010197

    KenAdams010197 Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone,
    I have had a foot fetish since i was 9 years old.
    Am a virgin and have never dated any girls
    Am now 21 and have always masturbated to feet porn.
    It's not necessary feet porn, but i also masturbate watching girls' feet on social media like facebook and even instagram.
    I love the feeling of humiliation.What's even worse is that some years back i kinda developed a cuckold fetish and now find myself masturbating to cuckold femdom porn.
    I really need help and want to be attracted to normal parts like breasts and ass. I tried watching regular porn but really this didn't aroused me at all..
    PLZ HELP ME GUYS, i really want to rewire my brains
     
  2. drac16

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    I don't see it as a problem, to be honest. Who cares if you're attracted to feet. That's a very common fetish. I don't believe you can force yourself to be attracted to a certain part of a woman's body. I like boobs, but there was never a point in which I forced myself to like them; it was an entirely natural thing. Don't feel guilty about it.
     
  3. KenAdams010197

    KenAdams010197 Fapstronaut

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    I agree but i want t have sex like a regular guy
     
  4. A new person

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    try to stop watching porn especially feet for a while because I think porn is the reason
     
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  5. KenAdams010197

    KenAdams010197 Fapstronaut

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    I will try not to watch porn ever again with the hope that my mind can be rewired
     
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  6. A new person

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    it will if god wills
     
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  7. Andy Dufresne

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    It sounds like the foot fetish has always been there but have you always liked this other fetish? Have you ever found women attractive aside from feet? The reason I ask is that there may always be that attraction to feet there (as drac16 says, it's not a problem!) but the problem is the porn can make harmless fetishes become all-encompassing, eating other 'normal' sexual preferences and giving birth to darker ones
     
  8. Andy Dufresne

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    And you're not alone! I have similar addiction ;)
     
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  9. KenAdams010197

    KenAdams010197 Fapstronaut

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    No the 'cuckold' fetish was arised from watching porn..I have a foot fetish since i was a child
    I'm also never really aroused ny normal body parts like boobs, ass of a woman.
     
  10. KenAdams010197

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    How do you do to cope with it bro?
     
  11. KenAdams010197

    KenAdams010197 Fapstronaut

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    I have been attracted to other woman though..
    It was more of a romantic feeling and the idea of having sex with her never excited me
     
  12. Andy Dufresne

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    Thanks for sharing more friend. I think there is a 'baseline' of sexuality which is there before puberty (whether it be the type of person you find attractive or the 'things' you find attractive). It's probably not possible to remove this (and unhealthy to try). But by stopping porn you can prevent;
    * Other unhelpful fetishes developing
    * Weakening the ones which developed exclusively from porn
    * Spending more time and energy connecting with others and developing other sexual interests (e.g. sexual intercourse).
    If you can reset long enough, I'm confident you will find your own personal 'baseline' of sexuality - but put pressure on yourself for this to conform to what you think is 'normal'
     
  13. Andy Dufresne

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    It's tricky - I've always had it. In short, I've been able to have a (relatively) healthy sex life with my wonderful wife alongside it. But the thought of sex can often feel less exciting than the endless number of scenarios you can find online (which is not ok!) and I have played certain scenes out in my head during intercourse - which isn't the end of the world but definitely not where I aim to be. But the more you use the porn, the harder it becomes, and I've been doing this a lot since having a smart phone (easy access) and a son (very little physical intimacy with wife these days - porn has done nothing to help with this)
     
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  14. Andy Dufresne

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    It's sometimes hard to distinguish between genuine attraction and feeling romantically connected to someone who is maybe pretty and good company but who you don't actually think of in that way. Don't worry about it bro. And remember that the fetish you've had since childhood is very common and is harmless until it starts dominating your life. But keep fighting against this unhealthy porn which is focused around humiliation - you deserve better
     
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  15. KenAdams010197

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    You are very right..am really turned on by the prospect of humiliation.
    In short am very submissive.
    And i would also like to share 1 thing. This urge of masturbating to these fetishes occurs exclusively when am alone in the bedroom. Outside, sometimes i appreciate a cute pair of feet but never ever had the urge to kiss or lick a woman feet.
     
  16. Andy Dufresne

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    You can't help what you're naturally attracted to but over time I'm confident that you can make it a much more integrated/less unhealthy part of your life. You've taken the first steps buddy - keep it going.
     
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  17. alpha@007

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    Getting attracted to women part is a normal thing, but problem is that whether women is good looking , good nature , or even if you don't know about anything about that women you will always give points/status to her according to her feet . Same was case with me I always ended with foot porn , searching all actresses feet , instagram models , facebook and each time i got triggered or feeling to masturbate first thing I used to search for perfect feet for hours.
    I had attraction to women feet since my childhood but later on due to porn use it became compulsive problem , and it can ruin your life definitely whether you look only at girls feet and masturbated and don't look at other women part .
    SOLUTION I FOUND : Got after lot of search and reading books :We always has a history of any addiction we have, so I started identifying from where I got this lust for women's feet . I wrote from my childhood to till now all incidents whatever I can recall to feet lust. And I got the cause of my lust , I spent my childhood in rural area and most of people were poor and dirty , we had teacher who had posted to teach us , she was from city area , she was neat and clean and with feet very neat and clean and polished in a stylish way . from that day it was deeprooted in my subconscious that women who has feet of that kind she is good and all other are bad. and I fed this belief for last 19 years of my life. now it was time to overcome this belief , and I overcome this addiction around 80% by hardmode reboot for last 68 days.
    *SO GET YOUR HISTORY .
    *GET INVOLVED IN SELF TALK DAILY THAT WHAT IT IS IN FEET THAT CAUSES A WOMEN HIGH STATUS FOR YOU(THIS ONE IS MOST IMPORTANT),INITIALLY YOUR IS EMOTIONAL(DYSFUNCTIONAL ONE) WILL NOT RESPOND TO YOU BUT WITH DAYS PASSING IT WILL RESPOND BELIEVE ME.
    * ADMIT THAT YOU HAVE A PROBLEM , BECAUSE SOME TIME YOUR BRAIN WILL GIVE RATIONALISATION LIKE ... oh man thats fine some have attraction to women's boobs, ass etc so feet attraction is also fine, thats fine but as due to continuous use of porn it has turned into COMPULSION
    * GET HARDMODE REBOOT , NO PMO , NO INSTAGRAM, NO SOCIAL MEDIA. HARDMODE WITH SELF DEVELOPEMENT WILL FETCH YOU BEST RESULTS WITHIN SHORTER TIME THAN ANY OTHER REBOOT METHOD
    }with hardmode and all above steps you will definitely see good changes as I said already I had cured larger portion of this compulsive behavior , and after these hardmode days i still have urges and some STATUS to women feet ,but it is in my control and not compulsive, I now I don't distinguish women on their feet . I admire women on their nature .
    By the way I am also nearly 20 and I am also a virgin and never had any girlfriend .
    BEST OF LUCK , YOU CAN DO IT BROTHER COME ON !![/QUOTE]
     
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  18. KenAdams010197

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    [/QUOTE]
    Thanks a lot for this priceless advice bro...
    My foot fetish arose by being in close proximity with my cousin's feet once.
    I was turned on and it got worse day-by-day.
    Did humiliation turned you on too?
     
  19. alpha@007

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    Thanks a lot for this priceless advice bro...
    My foot fetish arose by being in close proximity with my cousin's feet once.
    I was turned on and it got worse day-by-day.
    Did humiliation turned you on too?[/QUOTE]
    yes it did , I used to watch lot of porn and other stuffs where girls give you instruction of edging and other stuff by showing there legs and feet , but since I started NoFap it seems a thing of past , but urges are still there not frequent they subside as day passes and your brain will wire .
     
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  20. Andy Dufresne

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    Good luck guys. @alpha@007 it's great to hear how much progress you've made. Just because the fetish may always be there, doesn't mean it needs to be a big part of your life
    Of course that's easy to say and much harder to make happen - but you've shown that it can be done thank you
     
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