Femdom addiction

No. Submission is not in your DNA. The Sexual Orientation Yes, most probably.
I also have Femdom addiction.
Well, First things, First!!
In Femdom We become Dependent. An codependent personality. Nofap is helpful, but We must cultivate Manhood. Masculinity traits.

 

I've finally figured it out. We have to quit smarphones & internet and I will prove this to you guys. I'm on my exactly Day 0.5. Stay strong brothers.

 

Stopping pmo will help. But you may still have thoughts from time to time. But as long as you avoid fueling the desire it will come down a lot. It takes time.

But remember this, culturally it is called a fetish, but this gives it a sort of recognition as if it is a sort of taste or tendency. So let's call things by their actual medical names.

There is nothing called femdom, but it is Sadomasochism, and sadomasochism is a paraphilia like every other paraphilia (fetish).

A paraphilia is an abnormal sexual urge related to a non-sexual thought, action, or part of the body. That persists and dominates over the person's sexual desire, thoughout the day.

This paraphilia is not a part of you. It is a psychological-related issue that requires action to treat it. To treat it you simply have to remind yourself with the facts we are born with, living as majority of humans worldwide, and how this whole world's system works.

Remind yourself with facts like:

1- we are all and men and women are 'equal', 'similar' human beings.

2- Sound men and women don't allow nor agree with treating others inferiorly or superiorly.

3- Sound men look at women as partners, supporters, sympathitic and empathetic human beings who contain others. While women look at men as strong, smart, independent, disciplined and dicision makers, who are reliable and provide safety.

Look at these facts around you, from your instinct, your surroundings, your beliefs, your culture. Surround yourself with these facts while avoid fueling the paraphilias, neither by staring nor by imagining.

This will help you balance your thoughts by time, so when you get in a relationship or if you are in one, you can enjoy the vanilla, natural life (you should take it as an opportunity to hardwire your desires to vanilla, because if you focus on the paraphilais you'll make them worse).

Also remember, the problem is not with giving your partner a taste of dominance (or trying some sort of un harmful/humiliating fetish) during intimacy as a trialwhile keeping the borders, but in crossing those borders to a way that makes you repeatedly doing that, obsessed with it, thinking about it repeatedly, and expecting it to happen often, which is the definition of paraphilia.

 

It could be PIED or flatline. Don't worry, stay positive and enjoy the progress

 

I have overcome my femdom fetish completely. I wrote everything in my journal. Check it out and learn something.

 

Stop watching it

 

That's great you stopped for a month! But I don't think you should watch normal porn either. Save your erection for a woman you like.

 

You can read my journal here
I made a table of content on the first page so you can find all kind of articles easily.
I hope it will help you a bit further.

 

Femdom addiction is an attachment issue. We seek our mother and her guidance at the wrong places.
It showed me that I had root issues with my mother to resolve....

Go search for the underlying areas that has led you to the false need of dominant women.

 

Please don't kill yourself. Pick yourself up and try again. Relapses happen. Don't let it fail you