Femdom addiction

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Stop watching, stop jerking.

 

It really is as simple as that.

 

Normal sexual arousal should come once you've made some (long, I guess) time of no-pmo. I'm quite skeptical anyway about the femdom addiction. Surely, if you never watch it from now on, your memory will fade a bit... but you'll probably still be able to call back every memento whenever you want to. 12 years is a lot, all of us can still remember what they made 12 years ago if they have a slight hint to. Not to mention the fact that if you find a girl that have similar tastes, you'll probably remember everything again.

 

A lot of us (me too) are on the same boat. I also have fendom fetish with the same problems.

 

Long time without thinking on these kind of addictions will help your brain to re-adapt to a more 'standard' sex. The "no-pmo" is helpful to not relapse while thinking/watching these femdom thoughts. These thoughts will last almost forever in you, they're part of you now, but the link will be weaker over time. It seems impossible now because you're at your peak.

 

You need to change your personality. Femdom addicts mostly have very weak personality submitting to woman or very rough personality dominating women. We all need a balance. There must be weakness on one side for you. Try to examine that. It's all a perversion from the normal sexual behaviour which is vanilla sex.

 

Sorry, but I don't have any more advice for you. I'm still trying to remove that from my life and I'm at the beginning of this path.

 

Try to identify you weak side, do you feel vulnerable to woman? Than u are submissive, so u should develop your opposite side like masculine trait. Forget the femdom porn. Take a break, usually there are both tendencies available so develop your masculine side. Exercise and try to be the opposite. When u stop something like this there is this negative energy to face. The process takes long. This thing is still there on your mind, so it may take time. When u lose something that u are addicted to other emotions come to place. If the normal sex hasn't come back to you than you're not fully recovered. Maybe your mind is still occupied with submissiveness.

 

STOP. People are not born gay. There is no gay gene, some things become your "nature" because you repete the habit or thought so often that it becomes a part of you BUT THIS IS ONLY TEMPORARY AND CAN BE REVERSED. nothing is permanent in this world and everything can be changed. You see it would make zero sense for people to naturally be born this way that you are describing, it is simply your own fault and the way you where brought up as a child. Pornography has completley brain washed you to the point where you have no idea who you actually are, youve never even met yourself before, i'm speaking from personal experience. You were born a boy so that youd become a man some day. 50 years ago this shit was so rare it was unheard of and when it was it was considered a mental disease, which it still is. You where put on this earth for one reason, to spread your family genes. If you dont belive the things im saying to you, research any untouched tribe, none of them know what any of these words mean gay, femaine, masculine, lesibian, bisexual, its all western bullshit that was invented to spread sin and degenerate our society. Theyd think you where insaine, and that's because you are insaine. Youre off your fucken marbles my guy, if you think for a second god put you on this earth so you could be a degenerate and disrespect your own body the way you have been. How would 5 year old you look at you now? fear? disgust? You have been yourself sense the day you were born, there is no discovering yourself. Your problem is youre afraid of the whole youve dug yourself in and the work it's going to actually take to get out, but you gotta wake up man. There is still hope for you, theres a fire lit attempting to guide you out of this haze youre trapped in. No man is born this way, you got here from your own descisions so take responsibility and take action or else you may wake up on day on your death bead and finally makeing the realization that " wow i was never supposed to be this way, i could have been a man, i could have been a good man, i could have inspired many, i could of had a family, i could have been loved, i could have had a normal loving relationship where all i look forward to was holding my wifes hand, but no, now im dieing alone a pervert in a cold hospitial bed with no one to tell you they love you.