Does Going to Prostitutes mess with your Relationships?

I think you might be missing the point. No one said women are paragons of virtue, they’re saying your past sexual activity, especially reckless sexual activity, is a huge turn off for many people, and rightfully so.

Do you want a woman with a high bodycount including prostitutes? If not, then why behave that way yourself? That’s what is being said.

 

The higher the body count the harder it is to remain in a stable loving relationship. If that is not the goal and sleeping around for your whole life is fine, then it doesn’t matter. I recognize that the “modern” world pushes this agenda instead of monogamy, but it is a choice each individual has. The likelihood of a successful relationship is higher with a person without a high body count.

 

Of course it’s harder since love requires the sacrifice of self for the benefit of another. People who’ve lived their life sacrificing others for the benefit of their own ego create in themselves more and more wounds that make them incapable of love. This turning inward toward self for self-gratification is why porn, masturbation, hook-ups, and prostitution by their very nature are anti love, and beneath the dignity humans hold as rational beings.

Sex divorced from love is a rehearsal of death where the body becomes divorced from the soul; nothing remains but corpses which are incapable of life and love.

 

For the love of God don’t go seeing prostitutes. If you want to attract a quality woman, you must become a quality man. Cliche but very true.

You would basically using women who have to sell their bodies in order to survive, some of which are just being exploited and don’t even take home that much if anything at all. Does that sound like something a good man would do or does that make you want to vomit in disgust.

Take back control of your life and stop asking such “lost soul” questions. You are a full grown man. Join a support group or better yet, a men’s group. Surround yourself with strong people who would encourage you to get your act straight. Set some goals and work towards them. Even if you fail, you’d at least start developing some self respect and mental strength.

As someone engaged to a beautiful woman, I can tell you that looks are over rated. Life happens and both of you will have much more important things than trying to look sexy every day of the week. Eventually, as the relationship progress, you love each other for the deeper aspect of who they are, irregardless of looks. Life happens, pregnancy, agin etc… You need to understand that women wanting to look hot is a phase that they grow out of as they settle down and become mothers. Not taking away the importance of taking care of yourself or choosing someone that you find very attractive but don’t discount a good woman because she doesn’t look like your favorite Instagram model or pornstar. I promise you if you’d meet them in person, they themselves won’t even look like their own photos.

 

Chad gives the average Man advice.

 

Dick Grayson, is that you?

 

Arka Brotherhood are good. But

Arka Brotherhood are really great. Amir Khaligli seems like he hosts some good ones although I don’t know what he offers specifically. I know some people who really enjoy sacred sons. I personally do online but if you can find an in-person group in your area than that’s even better.

Being around men who are supportive and working towards bettering themselves and how they move through life was the best decision I’ve made this year.

I would also avoid any “alpha male” style groups. Men’s work is a complicated thing to navigate and you want someone who is experienced and training with it. Yes, sometimes you will have people “calling you up”and even showing you some tough love when you need it but other times they’ll be there to support you through some fucking tough times in life.

Good luck in searching and feel free to direct message me if you have more questions about it

 

Yes, my husband is in 2 different men’s groups, both help immensely. One is geared toward addiction and one is geared towards growing as a Godly man, husband, father.

 

You’re a Big Fan of Bluepill beliefs unfortunately I see.

 

Dude, what’s your problem? Genuinely asking

 

Bro, thanks for asking. Took me a while to figure it out but I did. My problem is, I prefer Reality and Authenticity too much rather than bluepill myths.

 

Steven Crowder just got divorce graped, smh, when will Men learn.

 

If your reality and authenticity consists of being an absolute jerk to people for no reason then it makes me question what’s in all those red pills you keep raving about.

Seriously man, this community is about supporting and lifting each other up. I’d happily do the same for you on your journey. Maybe that’s not red pill enough for you but that’s what we’re about.

if you’re just going to be a troll instead of genuinely work on yourself than do us all a favor and find somewhere else to dump all that poison inside you.