Dating and toxic women

It’s called No Fault Divorce, that’s what. She will be rewarded cash and prizes for breaking the contract and she’s super incentivized to do so. No thanks, I refuse to sign up for that. I can get anything I want from women without needing to sign that stupid government scam paper. This is why they hate Red Pill, because if all Men thought like I did the whole Scam would come crashing down and there goes their Cash Cow.

 

This is why I want a shot at marriage, just one shot I fuck up, it all goes down hill, my life goes to shit, I never get married again. My views on religion would probably forbid remarriage anyway.

 

Not if you belong to a church I go to, it's called annulment, You and the wife are allowed to divorce it's mostly clean, but there is one stipulation, you get married again after the annulment, you have a higher chance of going to hell, which I more than okay with since I know that remarriage after divorce is a sin, and your chances of getting divorced again are higher by at least 10%.

 

Neither is cynicism which FL seems to be.

You're really young and I don't think people in their early 20s should be thinking about marriage. Everyone has their own biases but if you listen to a variety of voices you'll understand what the truth is.

 

Kinda funny that all these toxic men that are on this forum for their porn addiction are moaning about toxic women.
It's the law of attraction...if you are toxic you will attract toxic.

 

Am I the only one here who thinks that the word "toxic" is too overused these days?

 

There are absolutely a lot of men who are completely self-absorbed and will never accept responsibility for anything. The common term for them is manchild. You're right about women being put on a pedestal but ultimately it's up to you whether to play into that or not. If you deal with a woman you don't like or respect, kick her to the curb.

 

Bit of a buzzword for sure, but applicable I guess. Not as annoying as incel.

 

Buzzwords; because people who have no respect for, or how to grasp the concept of the internet, let alone a deep conversation or making attempts to be reasonable need things to make themselves in the know too.

 

My priest has told me the exact same thing you have told me so I guess I should've listened to him, but I like to think that my issue is is that I focus on the long term and never the short term, because I tend to view dating the same way FL views marriage, He thinks marriage is a bad deal for him, I think that dating is a bad deal for me.

 

My understanding is that an annulment is a find that the marriage was never valid to begin with. I never heard that remarrying after an annulment increases your risk of going to hell. My understanding is that you go to hell if you're in a state of mortal sin when you die. It's not like you roll the dice.