Are there lonely women like there are lonely men?

dcookie · Nov 25, 2022

Adam_714 said: ↑

Disclaimer: This ain't an opinion piece or something meant to offend anyone. Just tryna understand something

I recently started off with some dating related books that have been telling me 3 things essentially:
1. Work on yourself & something more than just your day job (something you're passionate about)
2. Approach women coz they ain't approaching ye (they might give signs but defs not approaching you - it's all to do w/ evolution & not ego & I'll leave it some other day)
3. Be honest when approaching (Be yourself, give the honest reason for why you approached rather than the notorious pickup shit)
This all makes sense. What also makes sense is that a lot of men overcomplicate things and go the pickup industry way and there are others who are too shy to even approach and end up spending their lives like a loner.

However,
I often see women (mostly young) walking their dogs in parks all alone, working out at the gym all alone, going to or returning from parties all alone and doing bunch of different stuff, that I normally see couples do together, all alone.
I also recently saw these articles related to how women prefer being alone rather than in a toxic relationship and others where women complain how the men w/ good personality don't even approach or are too shy (in a cringe way) to be approached.
My question is: Are there women out there who are lonely and seeking an authentic relationship like many loner men?
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Yes we do, cause we are just like you, and we want to connect in emotional and sexual ways to someone just like you, and we can also be shy or awkard, just like you. And just because you see women alone doesn't mean we dont want relashionships or something, we're just living our life, there's no hidden meaning on walking a dog alone...

And most dating books or dating "coachs" make their readers think of women like we're some kind of strange mythological creature ready to attack and hurt men as soon as they approach or something. No healthy relationship can born from that perspective.

viktraaa · Nov 26, 2022

I see for example

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