Are there lonely women like there are lonely men?

I agree with you on that.

Look, at your own peril. But after that, a lot of things will start to make sense.

 

why wouldn't there be ? hmmm.... i don't know, but there are some women alone. for sure. if you take the time to look for them. i know some.

 

Can't I just talk to her instead and see where it goes from there?

 

Woman are not strange creatures. They’re human beings. Just like men. They too can get lonely, like we can. There’s nothing alien that they experience. We’re all the same, and that’s what connects us, which is why it’s very important to be authentic.

That means being open and honest about how we are all wired to connect, rather than being indirect about it or feeling like we have to achieve it.

The authenticity stops the moment you have to think.

 

Bullshit I would say, while it is true that some women are gold diggers and even more women do like guys with fancy cars, a nice home and a sucessful job many just want someone that really loves them and treat them decent. Maybe it also depends on which culture you are raised in, if you are in a country say the USA money seem to be more important than in maybe say France, Italy or Turkey. But then it has to do with culture and how you constantly say that a man can only get women if he is rich. Capitalism leads to winners and loosers and the winners get all the women. Not all countries work like that. However a lot of women want security, they want a partner that is stable both mentally, physically and somewhat financially. But then again I would like that in a women as well as a man even if I don't care if she is rich or not.

 

One of the things that makes women different is that they have children. So, of course they're going to want a man who's financially stable and appears as if he is able/willing to take care of a family. Look at all the defenseless women out there having been seduced with that ideological 'love conquers all' BS, and now we have an epidemic of single mothers and fatherless children.

Also, some people are taking what I said earlier and just running with it. If such a strategy goes against your beliefs, then so be it. That's how a lot of people are these days. They believe love is supposed to be all romance, only to end up getting burned if they can't adjust to reality. But in terms of giving women money, it's just something to think about if maybe you're stumped in terms of how to strike up a connection.

 

I admit that you are right in buying something to strike up a connection, in a bar for instance or something similar. I however have always refused to be that guy. I did it once and did not even get a thank you for it, it was just expected that I was going to buy something for a beautiful woman that I did not know. I have no problem buying if I know the person but I try to give no attention at all to beautiful women overall because they get so much attention from simps. And if I do, I do it in the way that they are equals, they also need to deserve my attention, I am not going to crawl for anyone, never have, never will. Unfortunately there are many men that do and to be honest they also destroy the possibilites for the rest of us because you crawl, beg and send money for nothing and women get used to that.

 

Pretty sure there are lonely women seeking a relationship but I'm not a woman. Since this is a mainly male-dominated forum it might not be the best place to ask such questions. Maybe it would be better to ask at r/AskWomen or girls ask guys.

 

From my honest perspective, I don't feel motivated to use Reddit at all anymore. Yeah there's some funny stuff on there but it's mostly porn and the rules are hypocritical now.

 

Like I said before, you have to be ready to cut your losses, and this is true whether money is involved or not. For instance the worst experience I ever had approaching a woman, I just said "hi" and smiled at her. And the way she looked at me, it was like my heart dropped out of my chest, and it totally ruined my day.

 

I just think it's better to ask women this question instead of asking a bunch of guys. Those were the only places I could only think of. You could also use Quora and The Student Room has a section on its website where you can ask anonymous questions.

 

No lol. You don't need to ask women this. Loneliness isn't something unique. It's an emotion shared by human beings. Once again - women are human beings. They're not aliens.

 

Only if she’s Hideous. Otherwise there isn’t such thing as lonely women.

 

I'm not saying they're not. You get a better idea of how women feel if you actually ask them rather than asking in a forum like this. I'm not going to act as if I speak for all women.

 

That's a bad idea. You will be used if you take this approach. And women could see that shit miles away. Women are attracted to masculinity, confidence, and men who are on their purpose. If you have looks, charisma that's a plus. As a man I know I lack most of these traits, and that's why I don't bother to going after relationship right now.

 

Yes, clearly. Both women and men want friendships and relationships. There is probably no greater fear than the fear of loneliness and not finding love, this is true again for both men and women. And women are often time just as confused as anyone and are just trying their best to navigate in life. People settle into relationships that lack chemistry or even toxic all the time because they don't want to be lonely.
There are some general differences between women and men though. It's much easier for women to get into a romantic relationship. However compared to men, it is in fact harder for women to find friendships with other women. In general I should say women are much much less sex-obsessed than men, especially the lonely men.
But why is this important and why does it relate to pickup and seduction? Op (correct me if I'm wrong) do you want those women you saw alone to be lonely? You seem to be doing approaches out of loneliness, and I think the underlying message is you seem to think this would only work on lonely women, or only lonely women would accept you.
What books are you reading about seduction? You seem to dislike the pickup industry, is that what your book taught you? There are plenty of good books and bad books inside the industry and outside the industry. PM if you want some guidance

 

My sister has no friends, never had a boyfriend, lives at my parents place at 26 years old. She is lonely by the definition of 99% of people, but she does not feel very lonely. She loves her dog and cat and that's all she needs, because she finds people difficult and annoying because they have opinions and emotions