Are there lonely women like there are lonely men?

Realmente pienso que ellas sienten alguna soledad emocional, pero nosotros sentimos algo sexual y luego emocional que en principio impulsa al hombre a iniciar el acercamiento, y por ende hasta estar dispuesto a dar más que ellas en las relaciones, eso me pasó a mi, ahora quizás esté dispuesto a dar 50/50 pero no creo encontrar a alguna mujer que desee estar en ese nivel conmigo....No a mi edad

 

The simplest way to befriend a woman - give her money or buy her something. And if you don't have money, you probably shouldn't be bothering them away.

Also working two jobs kinda sucks, even if one is your hobby.

 

What makes you think giving women money or buying her something just to talk to her would work? It seems kind of desprate and pathetic at least from my perspective.

 

I never said you should buy a woman something in order to talk to her. I said if you want to befriend, then you should consider giving her money or buying her something. Why? Because it works, son.

 

Because many men are under the impression that women are well-fare seekers, who have the urge to latch into a man who shows them enough signs he's going to be a well-fare provider.

 

It is true, because many young men who had the potential to be decent partners ended up falling into the trap of incel/red pill culture. And after seeing the recent, insane popularity of Andrew Tate and his likes, these beliefs became even more cemented among young women.

Young women interact on the internet with men, and see a side of them that they won't be able to show if they met them in person, add to it the popularity of highly misgyninistic content on P sites, the way many men online seem thrilled about the idea of putting women back 'where they belong', it's not inconceivable to see that many young women arrived at the conclusion that it's better to stay celibate and play it safe.

The only difference is that young women aren't going to form an incel-like movement where they will complain about men not giving them what they feel (unjustifiably) entiteled to have: sex and relationships.

 

Of course you can't just walk up to most women and offer them money like that. So what you do is look for something that you perceive she needs. For instance if she's at a bus stop, maybe you can offer to get her a cab. Or if you see her going to work, you can offer to buy her lunch - something like that. If you're in a restaurant or shop and want to get the number of the one of the workers, try to put yourself in a position where you can give her an above average tip. This strategy doesn't always work, but it does sometimes, and of course you have to be prepared to cut your losses if need be, or else you're going to end up sounding like @she-dernatinus.

 

It's all done with an ulterior motive, isn't that what he implies ?

 

Really sounds like something some pick-up artist would say...
It always revolves around the idea that women are subconsciously pre-disposed to be gold-diggers. Why does it have to be that way ?

 

That's the whole problem with this idea. It is centered around the idea that women are instinctively wired to depend on men, and of course it is also based on the idea of hypergamy. Something many borderline sociopathic pick-up artists preached for almost ten years.

 

I think you should look up the concept of hypergamy, the incel movement and the red-pill. You would understand where those guys we encounter online get those cheesy ideas, and what is the commonly spread, ideological foundation they derive it from.

 

well there is that idea... but honestly we don't want "parasitic" partners (meaning not able to get to work and be able to do something, though they might have the potential) do we? @she-dernatinus what do you think?