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An Update.

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by coconutplums, Jul 1, 2016.

  1. coconutplums

    coconutplums Fapstronaut

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    Hey, I'm sure just a few of you remember who I am, if any at all. I was a woman who got on this site to help support my fiance and others in their journey with nofap. Well, I just wanted to let those of you who were curious know that my fiance and I broke it off. It wasn't entirely porn that influenced it, it was more so how he treated me. I won't get into great detail but yeah... I'm going to be floating around here a lot more often now that I actually have freedom.

    Here's the story I shared before we broke up:https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...o-be-kinda-long-i-am-sorry.56671/#post-416706

    I want you all to know that you're capable of change and you are so worth the effort it takes to create a better life for yourself. I've seen how much porn can damage those who have used it. It causes me to feel very compelled to reach out and support anyone I can. So, if you ever need to message someone just to vent or ask for advice-- or basically anything, please don't hesitate to send me a message.

    Thank you so much for your time.
     
  2. ILoathePwife

    ILoathePwife Fapstronaut

    Welcome. I invited you to the new private group for SOs.
     
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  3. seth05076

    seth05076 Fapstronaut

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    I actually read your story a few weeks ago and I do remember you. I am incredibly sorry that you had to break things off. I am sure it is for the better, but I know that must be incredibly incredibly hard. You seem like a real sweetheart so I am sure you will find a man that treats you the way you deserve. Look forward!

    Side note: it is very nice of you to stick around to offer support to those who need it. I think I speak for all here when I saw we wish the best for you :)
     
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  4. coconutplums

    coconutplums Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for your response. It definitely was for the best. Now I just gotta pick up the pieces and keep swimming. I am seriously grateful for this. I have been struggling with a lot of personal issues, so seeing something so kind and encouraging was really needed. I'd love to talk to you more if you're ever up for it.
     
  5. seth05076

    seth05076 Fapstronaut

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    Of course :) I am on here daily if not more, so feel free to message or comment here for anything.
     

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