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Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by johndoe365, Oct 5, 2021.

  1. johndoe365

    johndoe365 Fapstronaut

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    I do get nocturnal erections, and I do get erections while masterbating.
    With regards to nocturnal erections - I never wake up with morning wood or had morning wood. Sometimes when I wake up in the middle of the night I notice I have an erection.
    With regards to masterbating - My dick never stays consistently hard. It would fluctuate from semi to full hard throughout the session. Venous leakage would explain this as I dont have a problem getting blood there, but I do have a problem keeping it there (losing erection).
    When you go to a urologist these are the steps for treatment / long term solution. 1. diet/lifestyle change/psychotherapy 2. pills 3. VED 4. injections 5. penile implant. I'm currently on step 4. Currently doing 0.4ml of trimix, but the plan is to lower my dosage over time where I wouldnt need trimix anymore.
     
  2. So, I don't have a problem getting it there or keeping it there. At least while masturabating. But with sex, I can't obtain an erection. That's the key issue for me. I can get an erection and orgasm every time with porn and masturbation. But sex - nope.
     
  3. Kajunkrust

    Kajunkrust New Fapstronaut

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    Just wanted to say your posts helped me get through my ‘fml’ period quite a bit. Hate to sound arrogant but I’m also a handsome dude who everyone just assumes is getting laidbut truthfully I’m a virgin at 35. I just assumed I wasn’t wired like other guys until I saw this site.

    Im sorry you’re going through this but I do appreciate your commitment to posting and following up. I have no doubt it helped other guys.
     
  4. johndoe365

    johndoe365 Fapstronaut

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    I'm glad I could help you! Just know ur not alone. Its embarassing and sucks, i totally feel you.
    If you have any questions or need advice feel free to pm me!
     
  5. user78848

    user78848 Fapstronaut

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    so did u got the implant done ?
     
  6. theway1002

    theway1002 Fapstronaut

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    Did you ever lose sensitivity/pleasure in your dick? Are you able to feel pleasure/cum with trimix?

    Also, what was your longest streak on nofap hardmode? In the thread, it seems that you topped out at around 136 days? Tbh for severe cases, 4.5 months just isn't enough time to recover. You should go for at least a year...
     
  7. johndoe365

    johndoe365 Fapstronaut

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    Yessir, implant is done and im officially bionic now. Best decision of my life!
     
  8. johndoe365

    johndoe365 Fapstronaut

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    With trimix I didnt lose any pleasure or sensitivity. The reason I stopped was because the dosage i needed was too high and i hate sticking a needle in my dick. Got implanted Nov 1 and it was best decision of my life.
    I did nofap hardmode for 4-5 months but after going to the urologist and him confirming i had a severe venous leak, it didnt make sense for me to continue. If physiologically he said everyone was fine i would have continued nofap, but since my problem is physical I opted for trimix then implant
     
  9. fapequalsdeath

    fapequalsdeath Fapstronaut

    Hey man, I sympathize with your situation. Your story inspires me even more to quit this bullshit addiction before it gets to my dick. I'm no expert but would recommend Tribulus Terrestris as I've heard good results from people I know and of course you should eat sleep workout and decrease your stress levels. Also read that rebooting might take 2 years in severe cases for the brain to rewire.
     

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