28 year old handsome ladies man virgin

At what point do I just give up?
I'm scared to talk to women or start a relationship because of this issue.
Been reading online and looks like there's 2 options.
1) penile implants
2) taking ed pills daily
wonder if anyone has experience with this?

 

I keep doing hard mode for like 60 days and failing. But its been 2 years since Ive watched porn.
Still no morning wood and everything is dead down there.
Gonna start taking a daily 5mg of tadalafil and see if my morning woods improve / can start having sex again.

 

I do track my streaks. Usually I go 30-60 days.
But there are a few periods where I did it a couple days in a row!
Will provide udpates on how the tadalafil works!

 

Well my goal is to NoFap in 2023. I'm gonna pair it with daily tadalafil and keep u guys posted
From what ive read the pills are safe. Just increase blood flow. Hoping it will return my morning woods!

 

Exactly! My brain isnt wired to porn anymore its been 2 years.
Im a healthy fit male. My blood work is fine.
If I was getting morning wood I could say that what I am experiencing is psychological but I am not getting any so probably physiological.
Hoping the tadalafil is what does the trick for me! My most recent hard mode streak has started thisyear!

 

Little update. I've decided to take hard mode to the extreme.

I booked an appointment with a pelvic physio therapist and a urologist next week.

I suspect my pelvic floor is too tight so I want to confirm with the pelvic PT. And get some exercises on how to loosen it.
I wanna talk to the urologist and see if they can do a doppler test to see if there's any venous leak.
I've also added a 30 min stretching routine every morning and night. My legs, hips, and groin is very tight. I can't sit cross legged. Hoping the increase in flexibility will equal more blood flow to that area

 

Another minor update. Deleted all dating apps from my phone. Cancelled on a date tn. My self confidence is pretty low rn. Will prob continue dating in 3 months time.

 

Pretty huge update! - TLDR if you have tight hips/lower back/ legs definitely go see a pelvic floor therapist!
Saw the pelvic floor therapist today and she was amazing! She did a physical exam and saw my hips/groin/pelvic floor are extremely tight.
Essentially I have a hypertonic (tight) pelvic floor which is the reason why I'm not getting any morning wood or erections.
Going to see her weekly to get my flexibility back. She also did accupuncture in my lower back area and sent electricity through the needles to stimulate blood flow.
She also gave me some excercises to do daily so will be updating yall on how it goes.
Also I started taking the daily tadalifil 5mg today.

 

Update...
Been taking daily tadalafil for a month now and still no morning woods. Will continue for another month and prob stop taking it.
pelvic floor PT is a longer process than anticipated. been doing stretches daily and have noticed an improvement in my flexibility.

mentally these past 6 months ive been the most depressed ive ever been. Trying to stay strong but im starting to give up. I wish i knew the effects of PMO when i was a kid. oh well. Lets take this one day at a time...

 

I eat very clean, I usually eat 2 eggs for breakfast, and chicken breast / salad for lunch and dinner! I dont snack.
I saw a naturopath and she said my circulation and everything is fine.
I am also fairly fit and go to the gym 3 days a week.

Just gotta stick to the process. Gonna be a long one fml

 

Big update:
I did a dry urine test a month ago with a naturopathic doctor. The test is to check hormone levels.
Results came in today and apparently my testosterone levels are lower than that of a man who's over 60....
Now I don't truly believe in naturopathic medicine so I will be seeing my family doctor / try to go see an endocrinologist.
Will provide updates accordingly

 

Blood test results came back.
Everything was in the normal range which contradicts what the naturopath pee test said.
My DHEAS levels are slightly elevated so im doing an ultrasound tomorrow on my adrenal glands to make sure those are tumour free.
I stopped taking daily tadalafil, i saw 0 results, 0 morning woods.
Think my only option is to stay true to NoFap hard mode. Currently on day 12.
Im also gonna see an endocrinologist and urologist to make sure everythings ok.
I did notice a callus on my penis right on the spot where i usually hold it to M. Skin should heal on its own if I keep doing hard mode.
More updates soon to come.