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I can totally relate. Also began watching porn at around the same age and I'm now 29. Can't say I'm as handsome as you and extroverted. Around 2-3 years ago, I had a 'mid-life crisis' in that I realize I was wasting my youth by not having a social life. Of course, my priority is still my career and personal development. I began seriously doing Nofap, started working out, meeting new people. I'm still wrestling with my addiction, but I've had varied success. I am able to have orgasm via oral consistently and even piv vagina (with condom) occasionally but only after a several week nofap session.

Everyone is different, but my personal recommendation is to take a month to focus on yourself, and not on getting laid. This means: examining your short-term goals, looking at working out, thinking about what skills you want to develop (e.g. learn a new language). Use this renewed focus to build new habits and avoid being in settings where you are likely to masturbate (e.g. stay indoors).

 

Greetings brother. I've been into NoFap for 4 years and also have the same problem. I've been with 2 chicks so far at age 20 and could get a boner for a while, mostly in foreplay and at the start of the act. Despite that i didn't LOVE them and the images of having sex weren't anything compared to what i was used to so i would get limp. Specifially my problem is that i can't cum with them so i get bored but anyways.

I have a theory which might interest you. In my case i have morning wood, good erections, can penetrate and urologists said i have no problem. In my case there's still NoFap to try, increasing sensiblity but for you you might want to try the
"kill the brain" method. Could you be having these issues from both sides of the coin? Psychological and physical, at least in my case it is for sure

 

May I ask an honest question (fogive me if you've answered this already)?

But may I ask how how got into PMO in teh first place. I mean, you say you're a handsome guy, and attracting women isn't an issue for you. I guess I'm confused as to why you needed PMO in the first place. Maybe this is my bias talking; for years I was under the impression that PMO was meant for guys who can't get the real thing.

 

@johndoe365
i wonder what is your status quo? What happened after all that blood work you have done? What happened to you? Can you give a quick update on your situation right now?

 

Penile implant isn't going to do shit, stop being so stupid.

Sounds to me like you just aren't prepared to accept what needs to be done to fix this. You haven't fapped in 136 days, that's good, but reading your previous posts I question whether those 136 days have been as clean as they need to be. You keep talking about texting girls, sexting girls, dating apps, meeting girls and failing in bed. You need to cut all of that out otherwise you aren't going to get the results you want. Maybe you aren't doing any of that anymore, in which case I take it back but you still need to accept that this is going to take a while.

I knew when you said that you're going to see doctors and urologists that they wouldn't find anything, you are a textbook case of severe PIED. You just need to get your head down, forget about your penis, forget about girls and in time you will eventually recover.

 

I thought you said something about having a tight pelvic floor before? What came of that?

 

Hello,

forget this thing about implant. It won't address the reason for your absent erection.
What about morning or night erections? Do you get some of these? If there is still no spontanous erection, there may be a biological problem.
What about your blood pressure? What did your doctor told you about your blood pressure? Is there a 24 ambulant monitor measurement or regular home measurements? Do you know your blood pressure at night?

There are studies showing a higher blood pressure MAY lead to decreased erection quality.

 

I have to say, I haven't read the entire thread. Do you exercise? Eat healthy? I'm 35 and started going back to the gym regularly since March of this year. I'm off my ssri's for several months now - almost a year or so. Morning wood is back. Porn habit? Eh, that's a bit different. I certainly feel more confident, but I have to keep up with the habit. I had a bad experience with a woman and it was more her thing that turned me off. But that's to respect her privacy. Workout regularly, drink water, take vitamins. Look after your health at a young age and optimize yourself. Your morning woods will come back.

 

if you get them when you sleep, then why do you need a doplar? It's not a blood flow issue.

 

So I may have misread some of your other posts. Are you saying you could not get any type of erection - whether it be nocturnal or even when masturbating? Is this trimix a temporary fix or will there be a permanent solution they can offer?