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220 days in..HELP

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by naruhina, Sep 19, 2023.

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What do you think

Poll closed Nov 6, 2023.

  1. Continue hard mode till you find a gf and lose virginity

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  2. Go with MO but not P

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  1. Sep 19, 2023 #1
    naruhina

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    Hey guys I’m on day 220 of no PMO
    since 17 days I’m in a flatline (no MW, not working out etc)
    35-40 days ago I realised I have puffy nipples(stage 1 gyno) even though I’m lean I just increased my body weight by 3% ( now on 15% body fat)
    I want to rewire my brain to sex with real women instead of porn
    And I’m from India and it’s not so easy to find a girlfriend here as compared to other countries (ppl are lil bit conservative minded here)
    I’ve been on dating apps to find a girlfriend
    Also met a girl and went out with her for a month then again it didn’t workout.
    Now comes my most important question
    Should I MO WITHOUT PORN BECAUSE I’M NOT GETTING A GF , I’m still a 22 year old virgin which is kind of normal in INDIA
    I Feel I have recovered but still my libido and random spontaneous erections should be back
    I feel 220 days I have not masterbated that has increased my estrogen and given this puffy nipples.
    Please tell me what to do? Continue this streak until I find a gf and lose my virginity or start MO without P?
    Also I workout 5-6 days a week
    Thank you, every reply will be appreciated!
     
    naruhina, Sep 19, 2023
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  2. Sep 20, 2023 #2
    naruhina

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    Can anyone please reply?
     
    naruhina, Sep 20, 2023
    naruhina, Sep 20, 2023
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  3. Sep 21, 2023 #3
    naruhina

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    Why isn’t no one replying to this?
    Please?
     
    naruhina, Sep 21, 2023
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  4. Sep 22, 2023 #4
    Determinedshinigami

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    Hey dude. I don't think you should break all of your progress. You've made it so far and need to keep pushing. Focusing more on you rather than the outside factors like getting a girl or feeling good about MO. You need to be happy and in control of that happiness.
     
    Determinedshinigami, Sep 22, 2023
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  5. Sep 28, 2023 #5
    naruhina

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    Thank you for your advice, means a lot
     
    naruhina, Sep 28, 2023
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  6. Sep 30, 2023 #6
    +TenPercent

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    I tried MO after a year of hard mode . . . and relapsed for 9 months! :(

    I was just going to MO, but was looking at porn within a few days.

    YOU are a warrior. Keep going strong. Choosing to MO without porn is very risky. Maybe some people have done it successfully . . . but not me.

    I see 5 votes already. All for continuing HM until you get a gf and lose your virginity. Just my opinion, but I think it would be awesome if you could follow that path until you have sex and then never have to masturbate again.
     
    +TenPercent, Sep 30, 2023
    +TenPercent, Sep 30, 2023
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  7. Oct 3, 2023 #7
    naruhina

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    Thank you for your advice!
    You have done a year of hard mode? Any physical changes you saw? Like more morning wood, random erections?
    Why did you continue this journey even after a year of hard mode?
    Didn’t you see any results or you like this NoFap lifestyle? Please let me know
     
    naruhina, Oct 3, 2023
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  8. Oct 5, 2023 #8
    +TenPercent

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    Plenty of morning wood (and nocturnal erections) - and all very strong erections.
    Not so many random erections . . .

    Results were great. I felt (and feel) better about myself for not having porn and for not looking at it. My confidence increased. I have a girlfriend now. For a couple years, with her, I tried to maintain hard mode - having sex, but not having orgasms. It worked for me, but not for her. She felt like I was "holding back". Now I have orgasms with sex - porn free for nearly 3 years, trying to avoid masturbation.

    The challenge I face now is the constant urge to masturbate . . . which gets re-ignited every time I have an orgasm from sex!
     
    +TenPercent, Oct 5, 2023
    +TenPercent, Oct 5, 2023
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