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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by X.T., Sep 7, 2019.

  1. X.T.

    X.T. Fapstronaut

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    I'm a 35 year old married guy working on finally kicking this awful, shameful habit. Got hooked on the porn wagon decades ago at this point, and while it hasn't demolished my life it has done numbers on my mental and spiritual health. I'm married, and while I love sex with my wife it wasn't until I looked into the info NoFap has on porn addiction that it clicked and i understood some of my habits. As of today I'm going to start a no PM reboot, and I'm hoping it will help restore some of my confidence and self esteem. Wish everyone else here luck and strength in their fight as well.
     
  2. charlesnester

    charlesnester New Fapstronaut

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    Yes, guys, I really enjoy fight so much. Guys, I'm also new here and glad to meet you here.
     
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  3. romlel

    romlel Fapstronaut
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    Welcome aboard : )

    Rebooting is for mind and spirit, so stop PMO and brainwash yourself by reading about healthy life style, NoFap .
    Don't hesitate to ask for advices, people are friendly here.
     
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  4. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter| Rebooting Resources|ForumRules|Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of yourprogress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be atremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help youalong on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  5. rafael33

    rafael33 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    The NO PM journey is not easy but worth the effort.
    The community will support you.
    For how many days you plan you journey?
    Maybe you want to make some commitment - not to the community but to yourself.
     
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  6. X.T.

    X.T. Fapstronaut

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    I'm aiming for 30 days to start, and only doing PM because I don't feel like denying my wife fun in the bedroom, also I don't feel that intimacy with her is detrimental in any way and letting my desire for PM naturally become desire for intimate time with her is a good thing. Ultimately I don't want to reduce my sex drive, just direct it back where it belongs, with the love of my life.
     
  7. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal, we could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     

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