I have a problem and I'm trying to reboot

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Aden Watson, Aug 11, 2019.

  1. Aden Watson

    Aden Watson Fapstronaut

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    Hey there! I'm Aden. I'm about to turn 20 in 6 days. I'm a college student at East Tennessee State University. My problem with pornography started when I was about 14 years old, but its only been in the last 2 years that I realized that it was a problem. I've been trying and failing to quit ever since, only ever getting a streak up to about 15 days. One time, I got up to about 30 days on a study abroad trip this summer, but that was due more to a temporary circumstance rather than my own efforts. Ever since I broke that streak, I've been having a hard time stringing together more than 1 day. I just broke my second 6 day streak. And I have decided to get involved in this online community. about 15 days ago I resolved to start a 90 -day, "Hard Mode" reboot. I've reset 4 times. I know I need to establish accountability in my life, but I don't have any friends that I think would really take this problem seriously. I've talked to both parents about it, and they know what I 'm going through (though I question to what degree they really understand). If anyone has any helpful tips or tricks, especially for having a strong first week. I have the hardest time on day 1, and then urges get bad again around day 5-7. I've rarely gotten past that point.

    I have a particular problem, I am deeply ashamed to admit, with pornographic comics. More so than traditional porn of late, this has been the monster that routinely cuts me down. Does anyone else have any experience with that specific area of porn addiction? Any advice at all is appreciated.

    I know that porn, in all its forms, is morally repugnant, and I do not want to be a man who looks a other people having sex, or engages in depraved representations of sexual acts. I want to be a good man. Strong. Wise. Self-Sufficient. Brave. I want other people to be able to rely on me. I want to trust myself. If anybody out there can help, I appreciate it to absolutely no end.
     
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  3. Hey welcome to the forum its good to meet you and have fighting the good fight alongside us

    Some advice:
    Be sure and give a look through all the threads, you might find something to be of great help to you.

    I strongly advise you to be active on your profile; start by choosing an avatar and then make daily posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you
    encouragement/support.
    ★People love to communicate in the profiles section and also the journal section. These are 2 of the most important sections. Also, we could always use your help in supporting members around the forum and in return you most likely will receive some as well!

    You should also highly consider creating a public journal (in the appropriate section[<-- link] for you ) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along on your journey!

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
  4. Aden Watson

    Aden Watson Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for all of your advice! I'll set up my journal today!