I am a 19 year old male who started NoFap approximately 7 months ago. I went 25 days on the first try. However, the attempts following my first relapse never went as my initial one. That being because I just lacked the will and care to try as I hard as I initially did. A few months back I learned about the term incel. To which, I was curious and ultimately began browsing a few of their forums. I related to a lot of them and their ideas. Since then, I've become more and more frustrated and depressed with myself. Everyday I hate myself further and further. Ultimately, I'd like to become happier and more comfortable myself. As a result, I guess I'll try and take this serious again. I'm probably wasting my time since the information I learned would suggest so. Nonetheless, I guess I can only cope and hope this helps.
Yes you will waist your life and I’m older than you brother, I’m barely starting to change because I’ve experienced that already. I hope you can succeed where I haves failed when I was young
Let's start with that first information you provided about yourself; you are 19 years old. That is so incredibly young. And what I mean with that is only that you have so so much life ahead of you that it's absurd! Out there in the world there is such an enormous amount of incredible women, filled with love, loyalty, spirituality, everything you could ever wish for and more. Being an incel is purposely cutting off your ability to have a future with one of them. To cut off that opportunity is like amputating two perfectly healthy legs. Now I'm not saying that having a partner is the only way you can achieve happiness in life. But why limit yourself before your life basically hasn't even started? Porn, internet and the abundance of shock value information teaches us that women are money grabbing narcissistic soulless whores, not interested in anything but themselves and what they can gain from a man. This is absolutely 100% true! What we don't see is the silent majority of women that is as wonderful and strong as could be, that could enrich your life in ways you could never even begin to imagine. This is also 100% true! Get off that computer and get into the real world, because there is where the real decent people spend the majority of their time. Also, be vary of male advice. Try to get some female friends and listen to them and you get a much clearer view of how to successfully interact with women.
I hope so man. I saw your thread but I didn't think I was qualified to respond. Nonetheless, I hope you are able to find happiness.
Thanks, but there are a whole bunch of problems that make your recommendations difficult. I don't know if this post is appropriate. I don't even know if I should mention them since some of them might be toxic.
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What on earth is toxic and inappropriate about going out in the real world, getting some hobbies and interact with real people? I can tell you what will destroy your life and that is sitting at home, having bitter misogynist men barf their flawed believes down your throat and just watch porn filled with broken women that doesn't want to have anything to do with you. You might be young, but between your shoulder rests a brain that's a million years old. It wasn't made for social isolation or reclusiveness. Remember, a lot of incels and MGTOWs come from a place of hurt and disillusion that has nothing to do with your potential or even reality. I'm not telling you to get a girlfriend, but rather to open up to the possibility of meeting fantastic people of the opposite gender, which you inevitably will (directly or indirectly) if you cultivate some healthy hobbies and work on managing your state of emotions.
@Lilla_My That's some great advice I wish I was given back when I was 19. I was stuck in the world of video games and computer stuff. At 29, I wanted to do something crazy before 30, so I deleted my social media accounts and went out in the real world to meet real people and improve myself. Met a bunch of awesome women in my mid-30s, but they're mostly married, engaged, or in a relationship at that point. Made me wonder, "What? Where were you all my life?". But I still hang out with them. They're cool. I wish I knew this when I was younger, but it gives me hope when you say that is there's this "silent majority" out there... https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...ard-on-girls-i-cant-have.226910/#post-2010439
