look brother start chanting every day and get connected with an experienced devote. and if possible if you can't rent a smaller apartment elsewhere (because all of the places you have been to exist with memories) and ask some techie friend to block all porn access to all of your electronic devices. this works best, quit insta,youtube, and stay in public as much as possible and talk to a therapist if you can afford this one. please help yourself i really want to help as a krishna devote myself aswell.
I am trying hypnotherapy and counselling i follow everything for 10 tplo 12 days then relapse that is the problem
Yesterday i went with a lady i have been chatting with some time. She is beautiful and i was getting a bit erection while talking to her. We romanced during watching a movie in theatre. But told she wanted penetration after hearing this i didnt get erection . I dont know why. Then i refused to do sex with her. She didint understood why. I said next time we will have sex. I feel very bad abt that i dont know when i will get normal sex. I havent fapped for last 10 days. Also my femdom addiction is also over now i dont have urge to watch femdom. How my natural urge for sex will come i dont know . Pls guide me i am getting very depressed thinking abt not having sex.
dude you cannot force your mind to like something but you can surely wait for it to like somthing, if you get what im trying to say. if you trully like the women you will get an erection once you see her without cloths just maintain the nice relation with the lady im sure she is a nice women and will understand your problems if you tell her and she will help you overcome it
It's alright. Restoring your Touch and Love isn't an easy journey. Dropping your need to feel Pain is progress! The desire to have normal sex will come, in about 15 days. That's when you start to get randy and really want to bang. Your doing great!
I dont get erection seeing a girl nude or her private parts but yes talking to her or while kissing her get a medium level erection. I dont feel the urge to do sex with any girl . I dont know why , i havent done sex in my life i am 31 yrs old. I am doing nofap from last 2 months but relapsed everytime after 12 days to femdom porn. This time it has been 10 days. How my urge for normal sex will come i dont know
I dont get erection seeing a girl nude or her private parts but yes talking to her or while kissing her get a medium level erection. I dont feel the urge to do sex with any girl . I dont know why , i havent done sex in my life i am 31 yrs old. I am doing nofap from last 2 months but relapsed everytime after 12 days to femdom porn. Now i dont w This time it has been 10 days. How my urge for normal sex will come i dont know.
Read this guys story he was able to it as well https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/i-will-recover-wont-i.353605/
Its Touch, sir. We all need to step away from the visuals, and focus on the Touch. That's what Porn has done to us. Subbing Visuals for the quick release by ourselves, without a 2nd or 3rd partner (Don't care if your gay, your a deadend), is why we are trying to get back to being a man. Sir, once you've hit that 15-day mark, a touch from a woman in realspace is enough to get your rocks off. This is a long and arduous journey. You don't need to feel Pain, you need a connection and a real one. Keep it up, and you'll do awesome.
Hey, man. I already looked there, saw what it does to people, and have to conclude this; "I would have a bigger headache dealing with them, than 1 person. Its only for the ones that need Pain in their life."
It had been more than 15 days of nofap. My question is that how my urge for normal sex would come, is there any technique to make that urge come. Right now i dont feel any need for sex sometimes i go to spa for massage. The lady therapists offers for sex but i dont feel anything. Dont know why. As i dont feel any erection i get depressed then life becomes hard. Friends help me out pls
Hi man, You can find my journal here. I sincerely hope that it will give you a good understanding of yourself and your fetish.