Both of these are great points! Our genes don't care about our happiness. It helps to be mindful of this. What we say we want is family and happy relationships . . . but our genes are more successful if we, men and women, are unfaithful. Men will father more offspring and women will have more reproductive success furthering their genes, if not their happiness if they have multiple partners. Males with high testosterone, high sex drives and big penises will be more successful. Due to the shape of the penis a man with a big one will deliver his sperm deeper into the vagina and "scoop" out the sperm of a smaller man. With a small penis, one removes less sperm and doesn't get it in as deep.
And 4 1/2 inches here. Just goes to show (even if it is true that most men are more or less average) that there really is a wide range of penis sizes out there and for those of us who are outliers . . . it's hard to brush our size away as insignificant.
It’s ok @_piXie_ It’s what you can do with your size that matters! When i was 3” things still worked just fine. I’m bout much bigger now
Haven’t read all the messages in this thread but a big dick is overrated. I’ve worked with a lot of women who are open about their sex lift and ‘most’ of them hate a big dick. One female actually refused to have sex with a guy when he got the trouser snake out and said ‘that thing isn’t going in me’. I am a grower not a shower. When I’m flaccid it’s about 2-3 inch and when I’m hard it’s 7-7.5 and quite girthy. My partner gets jawache due to my thickness and hardly gives me head. Maybe if I was abit slimmer I’d get head more? And anal is out of the question. Tried a few times but she can’t handle the thickness in her ass. If my cock was slimmer and short say 4-5 inch I don’t think it would impact my sex life that much. Us men can use other things on women. We have ten fingers and a mouth. Most of the time my partner seems to prefer my tongue and finger skills. Although I’ll admit she does like been on top and me been deep but it’s not life of death if she does it. Porn doesn’t help this mindset for guys as we see scenes with perfect angles and most actors inject something in their cock to make it throbbing or take pills so has the illusion that it’s bigger. And to be honest most pornstars are between 5 and 6 inch it just looks bigger on your phone. Some stars are ridiculous like 10 inch plus and splitting the actresses in half and they fake the scene to make it appear better. Most pornstars have said in interviews that a huge cock isn’t the be all end all.
Secretly envious . . . Is that fully erect? How'd you end up with 3"? Are you a small person? (I'm not. 6'0")
"in anger" - I like that! That's how mine feels sometimes, like it is furiously trying to get to full size but it just can't Thank you for posting here. Glad to have you in the club!!
I have a small penis, but fortunately, my tongue is 10 inches long and I can breathe out my ears! Sorry for the joke!
What is this a fetish thread? I don't get it. There's nothing more strange than being obsessed with what you penis looks like and what others look like. It wreaks of insecurity and people can smell that a mile away.
There is a lot of truth in this. I am insecure. And I have been told that women can sense my "small penis vibe". I try to accept what I have, but I have been teased, rejected and cheated on because of my penis size.
I don't know your life nor you. But maybe this obsession you have with it is what shines through. You walk around as a dude who is constantly thinking about penises. That might scare women away or make them not respect you. Cheating is horrible and I'm sorry you've had to go through that, but maybe if you walked on your security issues and seemed more like a man (weatherable, rugged, confident) those traits (I'm not going to debate gender roles with anyone) they might see you as a serious person.