X-ray Questions

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Deleted Account, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. This is a list I just came across while cleaning..that someone gave us. I don't know if I read them before but many might benefit from these..we all might. It's a lot of questions but you might learn something new about yourself....

    1. What do you love? hate?
    2. What do you want, desire, crave, lust, and wish for? What desires do you serve and obey?
    3. What do you seek, aim for, and pursue?
    4. Where do you bank your hopes?
    5. What do you fear? What do you not want? What do you tend to worry about?
    6. What do you feel like doing?
    7. What do you think you need? What are your 'felt needs'?
    8. What are your plans, agendas, strategies and intentions designed to accomplish?
    9. What makes you tick? What sun does your planet revolve around? What do you organize your life around?
    10. Where do you find refuge, safety, comfort, escape, pleasure, security?
    11. What or whom do you trust?
    12. Whose performance matters? On whose shoulders does the wellbeing of your world rest? Who can make it better, make it work, make it safe, make it successful?
    13. Whom must you please? Whose opinion of you counts? From whom do you desire approval and fear rejection? Whose value system do you measure yourself against? In whose eyes are you living? Whose love and approval do you need?
    14. Who are your role models? What kind of what kind of person do you think you ought to be or want to be?
    15. On your deathbed, what would sum up your life as worthwhile? What gives your life meaning?
    16. How do you define and weigh success and failure, right or wrong, desirable or undesirable, in any particular situation?
    17. What would make you feel rich, secure, prosperous? What must you get to make life sing?
    18. What would bring you the greatest pleasure, happiness and delight? The greatest pain or misery?
    20. Whose victory or success would make your life happy? How do you define victory and success?
    21. What do you see as your rights? What do you feel entitled to?
    23. In what situations do you feel pressured or tense? Confident and relaxed? When your pressured where do you turn? What do you think about? What are your escapes? What do escape from?
    23. What do you want to get out of life? What payoff do seek out of the things you do?
    24. What do you pray for?
    25. What do you think about most often? What preoccupies or obsesses you? In the morning to what does your mind drift to instinctively?
    26. What do you talk about? What is important to you? What attitudes do you communicate?
    27. How do you spend your time? What are your priorities?
    28. What are your characteristic fantasies, either pleasurable or fearful? Daydreams? What do your night dreams revolve around?
    29. What are the functional beliefs that control how you interpret your life and determine how you act?
    30. What are your idols and false gods? In what place do you place your trust or set your hopes? What do you turn to or seek? Where do you take refuge?
    31. How do you live for yourself?
    32. How do you live as a slave?
    33. What instinctively feels right to you? What are your opinions, the things you feel true?
    34. Where do you find your identity? How do you define who you are?