Why do we put women on pedastals ?

When you give your validation and affection so easily to somebody you don't even know, it comes off as fake and that you're up to something. It sub communicates that you're not used to being around attractive women or women in general.

Think of it like the attractive woman is a billionaire in a room full of pan handling beggars. Everyone wants something from her. She has to put her guard up. When you're not trying to take anything from her, you're able to be at ease and act differently from most men that she meets on a regular basis. I'm not saying that you shouldn't act on your desires, but do so in an upfront, mature, and secure way that allows her the freedom to choose. Rather than acting creepy with hidden intentions. You can want her, but don't need her. You're complete on your own and it's up to her if she's interested in being a part of the path you're on. That's coming from a place of being able to offer value to someone. Rather than begging for her approval and trying to take her as some sort of trophy.

People that are used to being around attractive women aren't fazed by them because they realize that physical attributes make up a very small part of what a person has to offer. They have better things to do than waste time on somebody just because they're attractive. They don't invest their time or energy into them unless there's actual good reasons to do so. They've met other interesting women that raised their standards so that it's not so easy to be swayed by physical attributes alone.

So just interact and explore more women. See them for who they really are. There's more than just one type of beauty. Raise your standards beyond genetic attributes.

 

Well, this was a question that made me wonder too.
Carl Jung has the answer to this. He says that the psyche is composed of many parts, including the conscious and subconscious.
For a man there is what's called animus or masculine part of personality: this is a conscious part that we are all awaere of as men. There is also in us this feminine part called anima. It's ingrained in our subconscious. And has to do with tender feelings and subtle emotions. The anima we have prpjects itself into people of opposite sex, often quite subconsciously. We tend to think of a girl that we like as 'the one'. The meant to be, the goddess, etc. Read more on it, I think you'll be fascinated.

 

Because it's beautiful. Men were bred to reproduce but were not educated about how social dynamics really work.

 

Ultimately I believe that indefinitely you will come to realize this as you get rid of porn because it has taught some of us to put a high value and looks and to put these women on a pedestal because we don't have what it takes to be with them because you're not fit or good looking enough it just emasculated you into believing this but I've learned after rebooting for so long my worth can't be defined by what I look or what I do but it should be defined how I treat myself and others